How to last longer??

chris1107's Avatar
Any guys or ladies know how to make your sexual performance last longer? It's not like it only takes two minutes, but I would like to last for more than 10-15. I guess it's visual, the look of a hot lady riding my cock drives me to uncontrollable orgasm. Usually end up having 2-3 MSOG. Is it a need for more frequent practice, less masturbation, or some sort of supplement one could take. any ideas are appreciated, and I'm sure I'll get some razzing from a few, just trying to be a better longer lasting partner. Thanks in advance!
sroach23's Avatar
watch this and picture it when you are making love:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gfTMDNzWsaM
warning, it may make you go limp forever.
Waldo P. Emerson-Jones's Avatar
Actually all the advice about trying to distract yourself is completely the opposite of what you should be doing. You need to concentrate on how you feel so that you become aware of your body's sensations leading up to orgasm. Then, it's a matter of slowing down or even stopping before it's too late. It takes practice and concentration and is more complicated than that. you can search the internet for info and videos on this. The good news is that pretty much any guy can master it with enough practice.
pyramider's Avatar
10-15 minutes? Overachieving shit trying to make the rest of us look bad.
If you are really serious about this then get some books on Taoism/Taoist, read and practice (preferably with a partner - though I suppose going solo is better than nothing). It is basically a form of tantra that is more specialized in sexual energy. Once you learn which muscles control the different stages leading up to orgasm, you can do some neat things like increase the intensity, increase the duration through a short series of stalling during, or stop before the point-of-no-return which would give you the desired endurance while still concentrating 100% on the beautiful woman on top of you.

Here is a quick and dirty trick - I call it that because there are better methods and it doesn't always work, but this is easiest to learn I know of. You will need to exercise the muscle frequently to get it strong enough (endurance wise) if it is your only method in use, but basically tense as hard as you can the same muscle as if you are trying to hold in a bowel movement. When constricted it cuts off some of the nerve signal to the prostate. So if you build up your endurance in that muscle you can constrict it as needed to keep from firing before you are ready. This needs to be done before you are already about to orgasm - its not a kill switch but a delay that you can repeatedly use indefinitely.

Something simple to get started, but I really suggest investing the time in Taoism if you are serious. The ONLY issue I've had hobby related is if I resist too long, like over 45 minutes it becomes very hard to get off with a condom on. No condom and I can usually get off within 5-10m of ceasing the resist, but I'm not about to go unwrapped in the hobby. Sometimes a BBBJ can remedy that, sometimes it can't. Minor issue for me as if I'm really into the provider I'd prefer 100% of my time inside her and not having down time between shots.
First of all 10-15 depending on what you're talking about is not that bad. It seems like there's 2 different types of guys ones that can cum a lot like 2, 3, or even 4 times in an hour, but don't last long. And those that can only cum once MAYBE 2 times, but last a lot longer.

If you're the first type, the tips that have been given so far are accurate. It's all about learning how to stop yourself at the right time. You have to get in touch with exactly how it feels and when the right time to stop is. You can play it off by doing a position change, or something along those lines. If you do it just right, you actually have what I like to call a mini-orgasm. You don't actually cum, but you seem to start nearly from the beginning like you just started and can go another 10-15 mins. In fact, a lot of times you can go longer after stopping yourself the first time. As stated, you have to be careful doing this as you can get to a point where it can become difficult to cum, and even lose your erection a bit. I would recommend experimenting on your own at first.
Just rub a couple out before you have a session.
double post.
Invisible1's Avatar
The best advice I can give is to enjoy what you have and to stop wanting what you think is better on the other side of the fence. In time every guy's MSOG turns into a single shot with a long reload time. Mother nature will take care of everything. Most women love a guy who can MSOG. Most women also love a guy who can go a long time before his first pop. Its all good. Especially if she gets to cum multiple times too.

"There is a girl right next to you and she is waiting for something to do ..............Love the one you are with."
berkleigh's Avatar
Try these Sexual Enhancers...
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+1 on the Stiff Nights, Berkleigh. Wouldn't leave home without them!
pmdelites's Avatar
i thought the govt required the manufacturer to take stiff nights off the market...
maybe it was "hard nights"
I was having the same problem and started taking small doses of Tadalafil. It causes less cumming but you can go for two or three hours. It may die if you stop and talk but will pop right back up, hard as a louiville slugger, its miracle stuff. Mens Edge Medical has it, melts under your tongue. I take a quarter of a dose because I really dont need it, just really helps with these one or two hour sessions.
pmdelites's Avatar
I was having the same problem and started taking small doses of Tadalafil. It causes less cumming but you can go for two or three hours. It may die if you stop and talk but will pop right back up, hard as a louiville slugger, its miracle stuff. Mens Edge Medical has it, melts under your tongue. I take a quarter of a dose because I really dont need it, just really helps with these one or two hour sessions. Originally Posted by MUSHROOM MAN
aka cialis
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0000252/
Say What's Avatar
10-15 minutes? Overachieving shit trying to make the rest of us look bad. Originally Posted by pyramider
I'm laughing like an idiot at work right now. Love your sense of humor.

Try these Sexual Enhancers...

Originally Posted by berkleigh
Or, and this has been proven at least twice, call Berkleigh. No way she will let you off the hook that fast. And...what a view!