How bad does the desperation smell?

How desperate does one have to be to write useless ThreADs to stir up business. And how much more desperate is one who replies in the typical suck up fashion? Really, why are you so easily led around by your dick? I'm sure you have noticed the recent trend in ThreADs to be the most asinine stupid topics possible? Do you like to snuggle, Can I chew on your cock? Is business really that bad, and do the suck ups really lack that much self esteem? Maybe if you ladies put that much effort into pleasing clients, you wouldn't have the time on hand to make yourselves look so desperate.

Maybe we need to make a Top 10 Most Desperate Acting Providers List?

I don't agree with you. I think this forum is supposed to be fun and I like reading this stuff...I wish more gals would become involved. It's easy to tell the difference between a thread and and ad (and i don't think any of the threads you mentioned are ads) If people like you immediately flame girls for posting innocent threads then nobody will want to post anything. Just my $.02.

lol! Puddy, I absolutely love you. First you were in the San Antonio boards, yelling at the ladies there, now you are yelling at em here. Are you having trouble getting laid sir? You seem highly agitated for someone on this site.

The title of this thread made me think of "post whores" (male kind) ..

I'd rather much see more women taking part in coed than what there is... threADs or otherwise.

I had to laugh at this: Why are you so easily led around by the dick?

I am because I love beautiful, willing women tugging on it. I would follow anywhere, anytime. That is what is great about the hobby.

I want women to post in Coed. I find it humbug that guys complain about it. Let women post and let us enjoy. Can't be all that serious in the hobby. I have posted questions for women in Coed and the thread gets hijacked by guys wanting to answer on their behalf. Fair enough, but we are here to have fun with women. Women will let us have fun with them if they are having fun.

Sort of makes sense to me.

I had to laugh at this: Why are you so easily led around by the dick?

I am because I love beautiful, willing women tugging on it. I would follow anywhere, anytime. That is what is great about the hobby.

I want women to post in Coed. I find it humbug that guys complain about it. Let women post and let us enjoy. Can't be all that serious in the hobby. I have posted questions for women in Coed and the thread gets hijacked by guys wanting to answer on their behalf. Fair enough, but we are here to have fun with women. Women will let us have fun with them if they are having fun.

Sort of makes sense to me. Originally Posted by AcesHigh

Well... Most are here to get information and then to use that information to GO have fun with the women.....

Few are here to just interact on the boards.

In case you did not notice..... SOME of the ladies manage to post here regularly and never get crossways with the guys..... Others are in a group that can't get business in other ways and have to get suckups interested at times....

I usually only take issue with the ladies that want to tell us what we should do or have to do in order to spend our money....or what we are allowed to discuss and not trying to tell us our posts have no business here....

The Mods do a pretty good job of directing traffic.

Yes, there are a lot of desperate, sad guys with no life who post here all the time looking for some sort of conflict to give their pitiful life some sort of meaning.

Yes, there are a lot of desperate, sad guys with no life who post here all the time looking for some sort of conflict to give their pitiful life some sort of meaning. Originally Posted by GneissGuy

But its the only life I know?




I have given some serious thought to being a Strip Club Columnist ....

Shee at! I just use the guys as computer stands while I ride them and type. I am not desperate, I am a multi tasker. Yes, that's it! You think if I post pictures, I will get more attention?

What's that saying about bad publicity being better than none at all?

With each and every topic we can see who started it and decide then if we actually want to read, respond or pass up the topic.

Regardless, at least we know who's around and saves entering another "What ever happened to Good Ole What's Her/His name?"

Even though I'd agree that some of the topics are a stretch they can be a source of entertainment. And, given the format of many signature lines, many ladies can't respond without having it be a ThreAD. (MHO)

As long as people are having fun on the threads, who cares. I mean if we are going to deconstruct everyone's "real agenda" for speaking out on the board, or anywhere for that matter, we would (probably do) have a graduate class on our hands. I enjoy reading the Threads for the most part. It's supposed to be fun and entertaining. It seems like sometimes "entertaining" for some means women having to constantly defend themselves on here, in one way or another. I'm all for it, more threads about cuddling and food used for sexual enhancement. That's why we are here, right? I might start one of my own....nerd curshes, anyone? I'm seriously curious about that? I have a ton of them.

I thought she said "turd"..... I need new glasses.

Shee at! I just use the guys as computer stands while I ride them and type. I am not desperate, I am a multi tasker. Yes, that's it! You think if I post pictures, I will get more attention? Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi

The criticism of us ladies who do post a lot doesn't sit well with me. Sure, I'm one of those women who post a lot and maybe I'm just defensive about being criticized, but I really don't think that's it -- it's that the criticism itself seems off to me. There's a lot of mention of "successful" girls not needing to post because they are too busy with actual clients and don't need to go fishing. But defining success for any provider is a really fucking difficult task and sheer volume of clients sure ain't it for the majority of us.

I don't "work" that often, as I only hobby in Austin and only travel to you guys every now and again. But when I am in town, I would rather see guys who find me interesting, intelligent, funny, snarky or whatever than just see guys who like big butts and big boobs. If it were the other way around, I'd spend more time taking pictures and less time writing this shit out.

When I'm active on the boards, my potential client base naturally filters out quite well and the quality of clients I see when I do see clients is more aligned with my ideal client. This makes my hooker heart happy and it keeps me from getting burnt out or wanting to take a soul shower after every appointment. It makes my time in Austin feel like a vacation and not like work. I like that. And if at the end of the day I see enough clients to cover all costs and pad my savings a bit, I'm happy. If I just wanted the most money possible, I'd lower my rates and stack my dates and be walking bow-legged to the bank. Hell, maybe I'd be hobbying at home and too busy to post.

There's also value to be found in community. I like getting to know fellow sex workers, as we're a certain breed of woman that's hard to find out in the wild. I like knowing how other people think about sex in general, as it's hard to get honest opinions out in the wild as well. I missed the sense of community we (usually) have here when I did agency work where we were discouraged from interacting in review forums and we weren't able to interact with other girls in the agency.

So yeah. Preferred type of client + sex talk + community all contribute to what I consider my success. Boobs, dicks, pussy lips, butt sex.