Read the following provider post, there has been a lot of discussion about the climate of coed forum, is this what you want to hear?
I used to let the "bullies" get to me. Then I realized that though it may sting at first, I wouldn't let anyone talk to me that way in person and you're right, they're probably hurting more than I am which is why they can only spend their time saying nasty things. They're probably stuck in a bad marriage (or just stuck in a marriage, period), a guy no woman would want to fuck if she weren't getting paid or just a plain ol' unhappy jerk who never learned how to treat a lady. Once I remember that, I'll be dammed if I'm going to let their (usually untrue or exaggerated) words make me pick up a drink after 13 months sober, make me stick my fingers down my throat and I'll ESPECIALLY be dammed if they're going to make me physically hurt myself.
OK my question is would you want to see this provider after reading her words ?
My answer is a resounding FUCK NO!