If I'm staying in town anyway, I'd rather you come to me. I LOOOOOOVE being 'lazy' after an awesome encounter. If I'm hosting, I get to lay there and bask in the afterglow. It's a sexual high for me, especially if you really kicked some ass for that hour. I feel like a stay at home husband, still smiling hard, while you get dressed. "Goodbye, honey. Do well at the office today."
When it's incall, and we're done, and cleaned up and everything, it SUCKS getting dressed and leaving. Now I gotta go drive and deal with traffic. The sexual high wears off so quickly. I feel like I could've used some cuddle time. It's just a buzzkill to have to leave.