When You need that little "extra"

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As I age (some of you may relate), every once in awhile there is that point when deep into a good BBBJ you wonder if this is going to be the time you just can't quite " get there ". I even had it happen once in my 20's with a Hispanic hottie. I don't know if it is chemistry, stress, not enough porn? An automatic buzz kill is the lady that does an eye roll sigh after a few minutes of unenthusiastic effort - and I will acknowledge that has happeneded extremely rarely. What ladies have you crossed paths with that make it their mission to cross the finish line, time and effort be damned?
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  • BLM69
  • 01-30-2013, 04:28 PM
Sounds like a lady that needs a new profession
TexasDave555's Avatar
Hmm few off the top of my 'head'......

Reese and CaitieMae.... Reese just wants to please and if its a blowjob she will give it her all. CaitieMae takes it as a challenge to get her reward.
I can relate,, always a worry. Many close calls. Heck it might be worse when the lady is doing all she can and that little thought that" this may not happen" pops in your big head. So far I have gotten through it. Try not to think about it too much, worry is your enemy.
icansmile's Avatar
It isn't a worry. I think the meat of my inquiry was more about who enjoys their talents, and who takes pride in their achievements. Ok, maybe a random worry pops up. When something else won't?
pyramider's Avatar
Explore and pillage the taint.
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The first one that comes to mind is Bliss of DFW. She's a total "pleaser".
SexyDiamond!! I am an older guy and definitely understand it taking a little "extra" sometime. She absolutely loves sex and loves to get off but she is just not really satisfied until you "finish". She is a definite "pleaser".
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It happens a lot. When it comes to BBBJ, they all have a mouth and tongue. 80% of it is attitude, the other 20% will cum.
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As I age (some of you may relate), every once in awhile there is that point when deep into a good BBBJ you wonder if this is going to be the time you just can't quite " get there ". I even had it happen once in my 20's with a Hispanic hottie. I don't know if it is chemistry, stress, not enough porn? An automatic buzz kill is the lady that does an eye roll sigh after a few minutes of unenthusiastic effort - and I will acknowledge that has happeneded extremely rarely. What ladies have you crossed paths with that make it their mission to cross the finish line, time and effort be damned? Originally Posted by icansmile
Plus in not a really big cummer like I was when I was young . Had one just almost choke on a single drop and that bout killed it for me . On another note Miss Melissa had me so into it when I finished covered mish slid off the cover and she literly made me go like a kid I really coated her mouth and lips . A sight to behold . I get an erection just thinking about it . Wow she really is A man pleaser that enjoys making you feel really great . Another is Olivia She really gets into it also Awsume ! Opps im getting another erection !
Maybe I am lucky but once into it I have never had a lady just roll her eyes and wish it were over..maybe they are all good actresses I don't know.. Even in Europe where the girls tend to be quite a bit more mechanical and want you done quickly I have had great sessions with the girl whispering or moaning "Cummin Sie Bitte"
As you get older you have to really have a mind set of accomplishment with some way to stay involved and uninhibited. That not only requires the right partner but a shot of tequila as well. Or two. Because the older you get, I guess until you get dementia, the more your big head tends to intrude at the wrong time.

When you're 20, and a chick has her mouth around your dick, the world disappears. The older you get, the more difficult it becomes to make the world disappear for longer periods of time. You get into a half assed blow job or a disinterested appointment you start wondering if you have time to hit the Taco Bell down the street before you get back to work. And that wreaks havoc on what was once your anytime at attention little soldier. See requirements above.

As for who makes the cut for a great BJ or appointment, I haven't had one for a while but I'm appreciating the suggestions.
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Moderators can I change my Hobby Name to "BrokeDick" can I relate-lmao!
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As you get older you have to really have a mind set of accomplishment with some way to stay involved and uninhibited. That not only requires the right partner but a shot of tequila as well. Or two. Because the older you get, I guess until you get dementia, the more your big head tends to intrude at the wrong time.

When you're 20, and a chick has her mouth around your dick, the world disappears. The older you get, the more difficult it becomes to make the world disappear for longer periods of time. You get into a half assed blow job or a disinterested appointment you start wondering if you have time to hit the Taco Bell down the street before you get back to work. And that wreaks havoc on what was once your anytime at attention little soldier. See requirements above.

As for who makes the cut for a great BJ or appointment, I haven't had one for a while but I'm appreciating the suggestions. Originally Posted by phildo
Bravo!! Well said indeed!!!!