Hi, this is Drew's wife here. Thanks for your replies to his post, although I didn't know he was doing it
and he maybe said too much..LOL. I'm glad he did and we will be pm'ing the boss this weekend - that was good advice.
To CharlesTudor: re:"
I'd lock the triggers on all guns and keep the keys myself. Hell, I might just melt them down. This could be a disastrous path you're on." Unfortunately in many cases like this you are probably 100% on the mark as most wives I know would have considered something along these lines and more. Fortunately I'm not one of those wives. Of course I was pissed off and hurt, but after considering why he started doing it, and taking the responsibility for my part of the why, I can't totally blame him and am able to work together with Drew to make our marriage work from this point forward. We can't change the past, only use it to make our future better.
To Tex: re: "
I think it would be great to have someone with that perspective join the board. And, it would be great insurance for you if you and she were to get divorced some time. Great proof that she condoned your hobbying." Thank you, and yes, great insurance for me because I've taken the time to learn all I can and forgiven him because of it. But no, I don't condone future hobbying as long as I can do the job at home for him.. for free. LOL If for some reason I was unable or unwilling to do that, then yes, I would certainly want him to be satisfied sexually and I would want him to use someone as discreet and professional as the ladies on this and other sites seem to be - as long as he is honest with me about it. As for divorce? See Charles' post.. ;D
To Anonone: re: "
please drop me a line when her Showcase is up and running on ECCIE." That was sweet, thank you!! But don't waste any time looking for a showcase from me! I could not come close to comparing to the beautiful ladies here. I would probably lose money in this profession giving refunds... LOL. But it is fun to "be all that I can be" for Drew, and only Drew.
That said, I would love to be able to join the conversations here with my own screenname and not be seen as a threat, because I am not one I can assure you.
On topic.. The reports that I have seen on the national news yesterday will only say that it "may have been" a typo but that nobody is confirming. I don't know much about financial matters, Drew does all the investing around here, but it seems to me that Wall Street should have some sort of safeguards in place for just such a faux pas, like an OOPS button that they have say 30 minutes to hit if they entered a number incorrectly.