why do providers do this?

JuxJonny's Avatar
well today I had some free time at 3pm, so I call Paris Bank and confirm it for 4pm. well Great!!! we exchange texts n good feed backs. I called her to let her know am on my way at 3pm, her incall was in Garland(N.W hwy & 635). she said "Great cant wait to see ya." Once I get there, text her, she said "ok" waited another 5 minutes, no response, waited another 10 mins, no response, next thing its 25 mins of frustrations, far drive in the rain...I said forget it, Plan B. am not gonna put up w/this. Its ok if she picks up & tell me that she's running a lil late, but instead it goes to vm, I get a lil piss. This had happen to me at least 5 times already. Why do U guys do that? why do u tell us all the hype n when it comes time, ur not there to perform?:Light en:
Ummm... I dunno? I've never NCNS. Why do clients book and never show up? :P

On a serious note, sorry for your hard luck. Must be frustrating. All I can say is keep trying, find someone reliable, and make her happy.
Caliban's Avatar
JuxJonny:

I feel for you man. We've all been there.

Listen to Traci, she is a wise woman.

There are so many beautiful and reliable women in the DFW area that fit all body types. LOL. Just check the review section and find one of the many women who will not NC/NS you.

Just my two cents.

Caliban
I am very sorry that this happened to you. I know that it can be frustrating. I will never stand up a guy, no matter if i am running late or if something comes up. I will always make it up to you and let you know what is going on.
I never have understood that. I freak out if I am 5 minutes late to an appointment. The flip side of that is frustrating for us girls too. I have spent time getting ready and had guys cancel 30 minutes before a session.

My philosophy is that my time is no more valuable than yours. I try to be respectful and always be on time!
spitfire178's Avatar
Cross her off your list or give her a second chance. It doesnt do anything good to dwell on it. Shit happens and at least she didnt cash & dash. Better luck next time.
I rarely take last minute appointments. I would suggest making the appointment a day before and then verify the day of. In my case I rarely, if ever get NCNS.
Jules Jaguar's Avatar
yup when i was on bp and cl last year i had a lot of no shows but no1 from here or p411 has ever stood me up or canceled right before an appt

i think if you stick to well reviewed ladies and do your research you should be fine
JuxJonny's Avatar
Thanks guys for the feed backs. Paris is off my list and I just found out she is being mentor by Julia Jewlz who also did this to me in the same area. but this time I didnt wait around even though she text me to give her 5 mins.
yup when i was on bp and cl last year i had a lot of no shows but no1 from here or p411 has ever stood me up or canceled right before an appt Originally Posted by 214JULES
Oh so not true. I don't advertise anywhere but here and P411. Last week--- 4 cancellations and 3 NCNS.
NCNS stinks.....it takes 30 seconds to say "i cant make it".

Im sure your plan B was pleasantly surprised.
No shit. Just send a text saying you are too fucked up to make the appointment. It is amazing how well honest works with me.
My guess, she overbooked, and the prior hobbyist was still in....
Oh so not true. I don't advertise anywhere but here and P411. Last week--- 4 cancellations and 3 NCNS. Originally Posted by DecemberLove
WORD

I have to agree , I average 4/5 NCNS per week from eccie members, P411 is not as bad, but NCNS is replaced with last minute cancellations most within 15 min of appointment time and one of which will come in after scheduled appointment time. So as you can see NCNS is not exclusive to the gents. The point is it sucks which ever side of the fence is being NCNS'ed. Best bet shake it off research your providers and move on.
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my thoughts exactly traci! LOL