Sarahsmiles-Professional manipulating selfish thieve

I have known and been a very close friend, nothing more, of SM for the past 3 years. Like any friendship, it had it's good times and bad. However, most were very good and over all encouraging. I think we both became to realize that we were positive influences on each other and wanted to help each other become better people. Over time, we gained each other's trust. We understood the other was a good person and truly would be there for them, rain or shine, and that any advice given was genuine. Building trust isn't easy and everyone has their apprehensions. However, SM was apprehensive to appreciate and accept me for being myself and would on occasion make extreme accusations of something I had done to her or accuse me of speaking with her family or other acquaintances of hers that I had never ever met. These accusations were out of character for her but terribly difficult for me to understand and, quite frankly, would scare me. These occasional accusations of her getting mad at me for ?? and me not understanding where it came from would lead to us not speaking for usually a week, maybe 2, no more than a month. I liked SM. I am a bit apprehensive when meeting new people but have chosen my friends wisely. I am close with just about each and everyone of them. I’m not able to think of a single person i’ve been friends with that I would discourage others of speaking with, or whom I would no longer consider a friend. SM, unfortunately, i must add, has changed my life and is now my first former friend. After careful consideration and thought, I felt it necessary to post my experience with SM. I will not post other details and do not want to slander SM. It has been two days since we last spoke and I have made multiple requests that she return my call. My trust in her has been broken. I feel that I have been manipulated by a professional. I am embarrassed and frustrated that I introduced a person of her character to my close friends. I now fear for my safety. Moreover, I caution that you not allow her to gain your trust and refrain from any requests for money, favors (paid or free as friends), IOU’s. I felt an obligation to share my experience with the public. For further comments/questions, i can be contacted at watkins97@yahoo.com.

... I am embarrassed ... Originally Posted by Austinwoohoo

As you should be.

This simp tripe takes butthurt fucktardery to a whole 'nother level.

Sooooooo you are posting an alert due to friendship issues?

As you should be.

This simp tripe takes butthurt fucktardery to a whole 'nother level. Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

This is not a typical alert, Mr Austinwoohoo.
You are clearly butthurt.

And you fear for your safety because a Provider with excellent history doesn't return your (probably bothersome and harassing) phone calls? Excuse me?

Please don't Alert the community that your are such a fuck-tard. Try to keep it secret.
You should be embarrassed. I am embarrassed for you.
I just wish I could get my horribly wasted fifteen minutes back.

If you fear for your safety why do you keep calling her making requests for her to call you? You also mentioned you've gone for weeks in the past without speaking to her but now you post an alert after 2 days? Sounds like you are trying any means possible to talk to her.

I'm not doubting she has issues most hoogars do just saying you need to take a look at what you're doing.

HINT::: She's been a waste of time for at least 5 yrs to my personal knowledge, her reviews will tell ya the same thing.. You're better off without that person in your life.. but I gotta agree with the others here.. You said you choose your friends carefully... welllll now..

Too old, not attractive, you overpaid big time

This is not a typical alert, Mr Austinwoohoo.
You are clearly butthurt.

And you fear for your safety because a Provider with excellent history doesn't return your (probably bothersome and harassing) phone calls? Excuse me?

Please don't Alert the community that your are such a fuck-tard. Try to keep it secret.
You should be embarrassed. I am embarrassed for you.
I just wish I could get my horribly wasted fifteen minutes back. Originally Posted by Ltm666

+1

Not an alert... moved to Coed Discussions.

ztonk
AustinModStaff

That doesn't seem like anything to do with the hobby. Its never good to air dirty laundry on here.

Supposed to be more of a 'heads up' not to allow her to seek your friendship or become friends. In retrospect, every step of the way, she was a taker and only my 'friend' out of her convenience/benefit. I'm not butt hurt what so ever. I've got a clear head and mind. I have a great job and career. I was only trying to help what I thought was a good person when she would ask (which was often). Ultimately, she hit a home run lying and stealing from me. At her age, she is trying, I thought to get out of the business and I was assisting, I thought, with this. Obviously, she has no intentions of moving on. She is a professional.

I met her through this site. Hence, wanted to post a heads up without PA.

Supposed to be more of a 'heads up' not to allow her to seek your friendship or become friends. In retrospect, every step of the way, she was a taker and only my 'friend' out of her convenience/benefit. I'm not butt hurt what so ever. I've got a clear head and mind. I have a great job and career. I was only trying to help what I thought was a good person when she would ask (which was often). Ultimately, she hit a home run lying and stealing from me. At her age, she is trying, I thought to get out of the business and I was assisting, I thought, with this. Obviously, she has no intentions of moving on. She is a professional.

Obviously, she has no intentions of moving on. She is a professional. Originally Posted by Austinwoohoo

They are all professionals, the ametuers are on match.com

I don't feel that these forums should serve as a vehicle for someone to air some bullshit personal problems they may (or may not) be having with either provider or hobbyist. Regardless of what anyone may think of the provider in question, I don't think that justifies someone coming onto the public forums and trashing her such as the OP is doing. He hasn't provided shit for details and there are ALWAYS two sides to everything.

The only thing this thread has served is to remind folks that the hobby is and can be one seriously twisted endeavor. Can friends be made? Sure. Can people fuck you over? Most definitely. More to the point, this thread also brings to light the misguided, poor judgement demonstrated by the OP. To that end, what a dumbass. Sorry, but someone had to say it.

My vote is to have this thread closed/removed.