Most club mongers treat the waitresses like they are wallpaper, and that's on a good day. . If you are nice to them, talk to them about some real shit, invite them to have a drink with you from time to time, you might get very lucky. Many of them are wannabe strippers who for one reason or another just never dance. Some are former dancers who still have good bodies, no two are the same. I've had some wild experiences with dancers outside the club, but in hindsight I'd have to say that waitresses can be just as much, and many time much more fun than dancers, perhaps because they are more likely to be "real".
At Buck's, we took a couple of the waitresses to Buck's Wild with us and then a party afterwards, they can be a blast and definitely are a wealth of information for sure