Ladies, how would you feel or what would you do if...

Ladies, how would you feel or what would you do if a gentleman contacted you for an hour outcall session, you screened him just fine, set the appointment for 3 days later in the evening, morning of appt. he confirms it’s still on, 2 hrs before appt. he confirms still a go, you ask for the address (You’d already been given the general area prior), you internet search the address he gives you and it’s a Valero gas station, you ask him for a more exact address but he just says, “Just call when you get there and I’ll guide you from there”?...Did he do something wrong in your eyes? Would you go through with the appt.?

You mean like what us guys go through every time?

i’m not a lady and i dont play one on netflix ....

but i’ve experienced that several times w/ various providers. i’ve never thought or believed it was weird or nefarious. just guessed/assumed it was part of their safety process.
the client or the provider (in an outcall situation) would just need to decide what to do. some might have a hard & fast rule - real addrs only, no guiding in. others may go w/ the flow.
“we reserve the right to not see a client/provider.”

now, if she was a sneaky low-down bitch out to cause me trouble, she could have someone at that gas station to follow you to her place. then rob you or burgle your car while you were inside getting screwed or screwed around.

did something happen to you or your car during a recent consultation visit?? if so, might want to post an alert or coed-alert. ...

I have had a guy set up an outcall similar to that situation where he had to have me park at the shopping center and drive me into his home via his garage to avoid suspicion from the neighbors.

References verified him as OK and I was already aware of the outcall situation.

Yes, it was outside of my normal types of outcall situations. But when doing outcalls we need to be mindful of nosy neighbors and that we are essentially strangers who are usually walking up to a house that might usually have a woman already coming and going and now we show up. That might raise red flags for those in the area and word get back to that woman.

It is the provider's choice of course to follow through with that appointment, but it is not actually totally unheard of to do that kind of outcall.

I do think you need to be upfront about how you are going to meet or what the situation is going to be about actually getting to the actual front door or inside of the incall. (If it's a hotel I haven't been to before, I even like a heads up of which direction the elevators are from the front entrance so I look like I'm just going back to my room)

Even if I am guided in or picked up and driven to the house I must have an address. This is for my safety. I have a check in person I trust with my life. They know if they can't reach me after a certian point the safe in my home has where I was going.

I understand needing to "arrive together" at some outcall locations for discretion but it id something I want to be made aware of ahead of time. This was the situation at an office outcall but I still had the address for the office building.

If the guy is just trying hide his address it is a wasted attempt. If a provider really wanted his address all she would have to do is look at street signs and house numbers no matter how she arrived.

There is no comparison. Women are in far greater risk of being assaulted by guys than guys are by women.
That is why there is care taken.
I would be more surprised if the ladies would go through that scenario.
The OP's attempt at equality is either neive or based in self righteous indignation.
Grow a pair and cut out the passive aggressive bullshit.

I must have the exact address before I leave my place!!!
I give men the same courtesy as I expect and give them an exact address when they come to me. I am not into playing geography games and in a big city such as Dallas, it can be dangerous.

Even if I am guided in or picked up and driven to the house I must have an address. This is for my safety. I have a check in person I trust with my life. They know if they can't reach me after a certian point the safe in my home has where I was going.

I understand needing to "arrive together" at some outcall locations for discretion but it id something I want to be made aware of ahead of time. This was the situation at an office outcall but I still had the address for the office building.

If the guy is just trying hide his address it is a wasted attempt. If a provider really wanted his address all she would have to do is look at street signs and house numbers no matter how she arrived. Originally Posted by WinterNicole

Yes. Having the final address is very important. Thanks for pointing that out.

The few providers I see nowadays have been around for awhile and on eccie and P411 with good reps. Same for myself. So with that, being directed in to her place wouldn’t bother me, but with a new provider with few references, I probably would not do that. Same as if she came to my place.
But if I have one come to me, I just have to kill the security cameras until she gets in garage so the SO won’t see that I’m having a guest visit me. And having provider know where my place is doesn’t bother me b/c again, she’s been around and has a good rep. or I won’t see her.

But stay cautious, if it doesn’t feel right, then bail. Better safe than sorry.

Address a must , ( an apt complex with hundreds of apts ) once "here apt number just saying its simple ,

providers do this all the time....for hobbyists it is not new.... in fact when writing a review it is referred to as a "two call" system. If it is uncomfortable for anyone let them know and make other arraignments. No one should be forced to do what they are uncomfortable with.

How did the two call system become so popular?

If I give you my hotel info for incall 1-2 hrs before hand
then you can give me your full address 1-2 hrs before
as I need to know where in going how long take me to get there
Does not matter how much screening info I have on you !
If you need to keep any one from seeing me go into your home or hotel then don't Do A OutCall

Be Safe And Smart ..

I always wondered why some providers play the no address game, they start off with intersections then move to building # without apartment #. I've wasted time and left, wasted a good mid day shower and hard cock

I don't mind not giving out the apartment number until after you get there. But the major intersection happened to me once. Once I got to the major intersection she went radio silent until 20 minutes after our appointment was supposed to start. I think those two things might be correlated.