Art of Recovery or Getting Hard for Round 2

I admit it, I love round #2 but am having a very difficult time rising to the occasion after Cup #1. Yes, I'm convinced age is part of the problem however I'm equally convinced there are methods to get hard for round #2 that I don't know about. Not willing to give in to one-&-done!

How about sharing the tried & true methods for maintaining hardness or rising to the occasion of round #2?

BTW - Cialis will not get me beyond cup #1, haven't tried Viagra.

I wanted to ask this question so bad, Im so glad a guy did.....thanks.

Book a one hour session: half this week, half next. That's what I'd have to do.

Book a one hour session: half this week, half next. That's what I'd have to do. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Now that is funny. . .thank you. I needed a serious chuckle this afternoon.

While Charles post is no doubt posted in jest, there is some truth in what he says. Making sure that there is adequate time is one of the keys. Make sure you book a full hour, ninety minutes, or two hours, if you can afford it. Communicate with the provider about your desires, and your problems. Getting the first pop off early is certainly helpful in giving you enough refractory time to get the second pop in.

Not other thoughts from me, but I can attest from personal experience that some ladies just have a knack for doing it, others don't. So I'd expect most of the helpful comments to come from providers.

Not other thoughts from me, but I can attest from personal experience that some ladies just have a knack for doing it, others don't. So I'd expect most of the helpful comments to come from providers. Originally Posted by TexTushHog

I suspect it is a jealously guarded trade secret.

I think it is a matter of training. Ever since I can remember I have had little trouble with subsequent rounds. I think it goes back masturbating when I was younger. It felt so good I would do it again immediately not allowing myself to deflate. Granted now that I am getting older (40s) I don't manage as many rounds as I used to but usually more than a few. It might also be that I am less sensitive than most in that it seems to work better if the stimulation does not stop. I know that when some people cum, they are too sensitive to be touched and this allows deflation which is sort of a cumulative effect, the softer you get the softer you get.

My suggestion would be to grab a movie or two and practice not stopping after you pop. I won't suggest grabbing a lady as in my experience, except for a special few, most would prefer you be done after one and would probably be disinclined to help.

Then again, I have high blood pressure (mostly under control with meds) so maybe that's what keeps the little fellow up.

I'm 64 and can usually "pop" twice with the right lady. I schedule a two-hour appointment. All the fun and positions to the "finish" in the first hour. Then conversation, cuddling and pleasuring her...then back to me for a BBBJ second "finish".

This sequence works for me; but Hey!! we're all unique..just find out what works for you.

Book a one hour session: half this week, half next. That's what I'd have to do. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

That was a good one!
I've had a really shitty day and that's the first thing that made me laugh all day.

A good encore is all about the inspiration, for me . . . and there are many truly inspirational women out there . . .

Thinck about banging the boss' wife.

My problem is usually being ready for cup #3 No, I'm not trying to brag or anything. My problem is that my first cup is usually spend so quickly-- sometimes all it takes is one little touch from the provider and I'm done with round 1 in less than 2 minutes of BCD time. Getting ready for round 2 isn't much of a problem for me. Usually, we spend some down time just talking about anything. This gets my mind off of sex to relax me. We can do this for 10 to 15 minutes. Then I'll start to get "serious" with the gal-- massage, kissing, fondling. This will get junior up and ready. From this point, I can have good session with some stamina before spilling cup #2. Now the tricky part is cup #3. I usually want to try for it b/c there was zero satisfaction with cup#1. For me recovery time is longer and what I did between cups 1 and 2 usually doesn't work. I've found booking longer dates is probably the best solution because more time can be built into the break between rounds 2 and 3. Personally, I think it is all psychological. Of course, the quality of the provider plays a huge role. She has to be willing to work with you. If she's not into it or simply mechanical, then the magic may not be there. So my recommendation is this: Book longer sessions and find a provider who is more than willing to provider MSOG but who really enjoys it (i.e. do your research).

Has anyone tried popping quickly w/o meds, then taking a med with the expectation that it will work in an hour or so and will give you the second cup. Of course, you need at least a 1 1/2 hr appt for this. 2 hrs would be better.

In my early 60's but am like a high school kid for my first, and ususally only, pop. However, little Pete can rise to the occaision after 20 - 30 minutes rest. He works fine but I usually can't manage the second pop. This is a good time to do whatever the provider enjoys and then we are both happy.

for me it is the height of the arousal, there are some other factors as to ammount of rest and time spend on the first pop. On a few occasions a 2nd has happened, these are the special ladies who captivate the mind :-)