Hobbies On BP Cant Be Respectful?

I posted an ad on BP that I will be visiting the Buffalo area .I still ask for references of ladies that have reviews and websites ,A gent called me this morning wondering what kind of services I provide ,WTF! Im not a gas station ,He was looking for full service ,I told him its for my time and companionship and please keep it clean on my phone ,Then he wants to know what I charge ? How dumb can he be ! I told him to go back to where he saw my post and everything is there plan and simple to hit the link in blue ,Dont take it personal I dont discuss anything on the phone or in person theres no need too .,If he couldnt provide me with references of ladies he has seen before he would have to go to datecheck to get verified ! Am I right or Am I wrong .

your right...get as much info you need until you feel
ok about seeing someone.
i never post on bp... its always a suprize there


be careful mamas

your right...get as much info you need until you feel
ok about seeing someone.
i never post on bp... its always a suprize there


be careful mamas Originally Posted by Brooklyn Sky

agreed girl

I don't understand this! I have seen more FAKE girls on these sites, then real! If a guy says he is not LE then why not go from there. Tell him rates and services! I have met up with girls and they are not who and or what they say! And i have to turn them away at my door! That is not easy for me to do! It kind of makes me feel like a "Dick" but if the girl is not straight up, then that is what has to be DONE! Now she has wasted her time and gas and MY time! It has gotten to the point were i have to offer LOW for a FIRST time meet, with a promise of a good tip (JUST MY WORD!, which i understand girls do and most of the time can't believe) (if she is who she says she is and provides the correct services) or i won't do it! This is really taking away from the fun that this is supposed to be all about!!! I think more and more guys are going to start doing this! And the ones that are true providers are going to suffer when the game goes stale!!!

That last comment is too stupid for words...yes, don't ever say rates or services over the phone.
I'd avoid BP, not saying its all bad, but why risk it? The men usually don't provide references, don't know what they are doing, and there is just no standard of class...don't throw your pearls to swine.

Repeat after me..."P411, Date Check, ECCIE, P411, Date Check, ECCIE". That's all you need to know. Girls, drop BP....too many losers, freaks and misfits to risk it. Guys, do the same...too many lowlifes, skanks and fakes on that site to make it worthwhile. Yes, I know the verification services ask for $$ and/or personal information but that's the price you pay for safety and security. Suck it up, because it's worth the peace of mind that comes with it.

I guess you really have to go with your gut feelings he was just 1 guy out of 5 ,who couldnt supply me with references the 4 others gave me references
Also,I cant deal with stupidity in men or are disrespectful on the phone or N/S N/C, Our time is just as important as your time
As an example,I saw someone last yr when I visited buffalo ,Hes a member here ,Not mentioning any names unless you pm me .He made an appt for 9pm and called me a 1/2 before to let me know hes running 15 mint late
Guess what he was a N/S N/C ,I could have seen someone else who wanted to see me at the same time and hes was from date-check I had to tell the gent I was already booked for a 9pm,I really hate to double book ! .

And what you do when you know hes a member here and youve seen him before and he asks whats the rate .He was just too lazy to look thru my site Comeon it can happen here it can happen on Bp too !!

These are the reasons I got off my ass to finally figure this site out! I dislike BP very much and plan to get P411 very soon! I am happy to say that I finally got a website up! It's been pretty freakin crazy tryin to get things done, especially after bustin my computer screen!

Yes, I hate it when they call & ask what do I do, or what's included. I get so many calls for gr**k, I don't do that.

I post there too but I really don't like to. But just like I learned from it I still use it to learn more

You gals do a lot of work for us horn dogs - jus wanna say " thank you " you rock ! Safe travels :")

Good and bad on both sides.

Part of your job is to deal with it.

Just like us.

I don't understand this! I have seen more FAKE girls on these sites, then real! If a guy says he is not LE then why not go from there. Tell him rates and services!! Originally Posted by waynedk1

I don't know if law varies from location to location, but where I am at LE can tell you a hundred times that they are not LE. You talk service and price and then meet them - they will arrest you (this goes for both providers and hobbyist). It is not considered entrapment.

I advertise on BP (as well as here, P411, EROS, etc.). The BP guys generally are more work, but some of my best regulars have come from there.

Also, I use a statcounter and most of my hits are from BP. I read somewhere that it takes about 8 visits to your site before someone contacts you.

In defense of backpage, I must say after advertising for over two years on and off in a "safer" section (not escorts or bodyrubs) that my little dollar backpage ad generates waaaay more interest and clients with only a measly headshot used. Why? Simple. By and large, a majority of men are simply not aware of eccie. I know, gasp, shock! There is no difference in the way I am treated on either site, men are men. I have P411's make and break appointments and I just don't get the reliable, steady eddies like I do on bp. I have made some wonderful friends off bp, and I use my "date I joined backpage" notice that people can see and note my long standing on the site which is a nice bonus.

As far as eccie goes, I would rather be working seeing clients than checking emails and pm's asking for info that is already posted. Most people that find me on eccie won't call, even tho it states on my ad that a call is the best way to reach me. I have had a P411 client with 17 okays contact me who I would not see based on the type of questions they persisted on asking me that were from what I have learned scouring the internet for advice, "control issues", that seasoned providers advise are coming from the sort of man who preys upon providers and how providers need to choose clients who are more respectful and patient.

Lastly, I have a provider aquaintence who came to my area and posted her backpage ad in the escort section after checking into a hotel. I watched her take calls, it was literally like shooting fish in a barrel. She told me she cleared a cool thousand bucks in one night, and was treated just fine. With odds like that, gambling on backpage is a gamble but it is a handsome one at that.