I suck at reviews, they take too much effort, so let me just say here that I spent an hour-and-a-half with Becky of Rochester BP (Webster) and I had an absolute blast.
She is so nice and fun and non-judgemental. Totally put me at ease. A definite yes.
http://rochester.backpage.com/Female...reams/17521381
Ladies and gents can discuss, or mods can move it if they must.