I have been seeing amber for about 2 weeks for a total of 5 visits, I have bought her food , paid her phone bill , paid her rent , in fact we were so close that she told me that she wants to go bare back with me . She tells me she loves me when I leave or we talk on the phone but I have caught her in so many lies lately that I am done with her . She is beautiful and a lot of fun and great in bed , world class bbbj and a the pussy of an 18 year old but from this point on I will no longer do the things I used to , from now on if I do go back it is strictly business transaction, I am so mad at her for the latest shit she pulled on me but at the same time we have so much fun in bed. This bitch surely has Pussy control
This isn't a personal issue I always got more from her for my guestures I got greek , I got extended play time , it's the other crap like telling me her son was sick that she needs money for his meds , her car payment is past due her mom just died and wants to buy flowers , always some bill shit story why she needs to see me , I never gave without receiving . But I'm just tired of her lies. I told her to place another ad or join an agency that my well is dry
Mistake #1: Going back to see her that frequently. She got the picture; you like her. If you like a provider that much, discipline yourself to not go back often.
Mistake #2: Getting personal. Bringing her food, paying bills, etc. Give her cash, maybe a little gift if you like her, but leave it at that. Anything more and you're muddying the waters. Things become less clear and you're inviting craziness into the arrangement.
Mistake #3: Believing her. I'm not saying all providers are liars, but enough of them are that you're better off acting as if she's feeding you a line of bullshit until she proves otherwise. (P.S. -- if you've stuck around long enough for her to "prove otherwise", odds are you're too close to her and need to back away.)
Mistake #4: Posting about it here where we can all giggle into our coffee about you.