If your SO was as awesome as me...

If you could really talk your significant other about the hobby, would you? Would you be interested in sharing your bedroom experiences? Have you ever tried to ask if they would? How about if you have talked about sharing each other, how did the topic come up, and did anything ever come of it?
Are you comfortable sharing your significant other if she wanted to mess around with other men, escort/friend/mmf?

Have talked a little about it and she shows no interest what so ever

Have talked a little about it and she shows no interest what so ever Originally Posted by rodeomann22

What's "talked a little about it?" Like... What did you say, how did it get brought up?
Do you think she would flip if she knew you hobbied?

yes I believe she would, as for the rest, don't prefer to answer in the public forum

Absolutely, I believe it's important. Shannah and Autumn were both escorts when I met them so it's a big part of our relationships .Especially Autumn because I met her when I booked her for my SD who is like an SO.

Absolutely, I believe it's important. Shannah and Autumn were both escorts when I met them so it's a big part of our relationships .Especially Autumn because I met her when I booked her for my SD who is like an SO. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

You live quite the Poly lifestyle huh?

yes I believe she would, as for the rest, don't prefer to answer in the public forum Originally Posted by rodeomann22

Haha. Ok then!

Absolutely, I believe it's important. Shannah and Autumn were both escorts when I met them so it's a big part of our relationships .Especially Autumn because I met her when I booked her for my SD who is like an SO. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

Curious? SD v SO. If he stopped paying you, would you still be with him?

To get back on topic, had a threesome with her once, mutual GF. Never again.....it happening or bringing it up

You live quite the Poly lifestyle huh? Originally Posted by TheBisexualPhilogynist

Yeah, I don't really believe in monogamy. I'll always be bi/pan and a poly swinger.

Curious? SD v SO. If he stopped paying you, would you still be with him?

To get back on topic, had a threesome with her once, mutual GF. Never again.....it happening or bringing it up Originally Posted by splitlicker

Haha dating is way more expensive than being a SD. He's so frugal he won't even buy himself new clothes more than twice a year and he shops at Aldis Lmfao. If he wasn't paying me he'd be dating me and I'd have my own credit card of his his head would explode. Then if he's dating me he's kind of semi dating my GFs which he calls my harpies nest Lmfao.

Finding an SO like you would be easier said than done. Since her and I don't even have sex, there's not much point in trying to talk her into anything.

Haha dating is way more expensive than being a SD. He's so frugal he won't even buy himself new clothes more than twice a year and he shops at Aldis Lmfao. If he wasn't paying me he'd be dating me and I'd have my own credit card of his his head would explode. Then if he's dating me he's kind of semi dating my GFs which he calls my harpies nest Lmfao. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

So, the answer is NO! You wouldn't see him if he wasn't paying you?

Finding an SO like you would be easier said than done. Since her and I don't even have sex, there's not much point in trying to talk her into anything. Originally Posted by blthzr666

This is why the hobby is important!!! Humans are animals!!! We have needs and urges, if they aren't getting taken care of they need to be!. If men were meant to be mono then they would only be able to reproduce every 9 months like women.

So, the answer is NO! You wouldn't see him if he wasn't paying you? Originally Posted by splitlicker

Maybe I should rewordreward that, I would never date ANYONE that didn't have a pot to Piss in.

I have enough stress managing my own hobby life, I can't imagine if I had to worry about her having one as well. If she found out and new for sure, with undeniable proof. It would absolutely devastate her. It would tear her whole world apart. She would dwell on it the rest of her life. That's why I'm so careful