Ok, so this will sound wrong or phony but it's true:
A female friend of mine wants to buy one and believes in quality.
Yep, she's really just a friend.
Nope, she's not a provider.
Yep, we really do discuss these things pretty openly.
Nope, never so much as hugged her.
I'm over 50 and a hobbyist, she's mid-40s and a swinger.
And I've already helped her source a self-gratification, BDSM toy based on what her needs were and the info I found on our board.
But this is pretty specific and really only those with actual experience can answer what works best and is most useful. Reliable info in this area is hard to come by, if you'll pardon the pun.
Interchangeable dildos, comfortable, and functional are the goals.
Ladies?
Thanks!
Lvus