Romance in the Hobby, advice from the ladies plz

I know since we all are jaded cynics that this is kinda poo pood but I think it may have happened to me. We just seem to fit each others tastes and from what she said, on face value, she is interested to. I'm just not very good and readying social queues but I'm really hoping this is real, I really like this lady. I'm just don't know to take it on face value or not. Ladies, your thoughts?

I'm not going to do a review either, it just doesn't feel right, not sure how to express it. I felt a connection.

Lmao !

Not being cynical, but 99 times out of 100, it's just an illusion. Escorts are selling a fantasy and she apparently is really good at her job.

Do yourself a favor and don't get attached, your pocketbook will thank you. And imo, you should write a review. It's the best way to help her business, especially with the holidays coming up.

I say go for it OP, love can be found in strange places

" from what she said, on face value, she is interested to."

it could turn into a real world relationship, maybe even last a lifetime.
but probabilities tell me it wont.

so, depending on what she said, if she volunteered it or responded to something you asked or said, her background and a zillion other factors, she may really be interested in pursuing a relationship w/ you.

keep your eyes & brain & heart wide open!!
good luck

I found luv once on here, got the ring and everything...


It ended when he fucked me over, good luck though..

Also we were both grown about the situation, we did not bring drama to the board when it didn't work out lol.

See if she wants to spend time w/ you without you paying for it. If not, you probably have your answer. Lol.

" from what she said, on face value, she is interested to."

it could turn into a real world relationship, maybe even last a lifetime.
but probabilities tell me it wont.

so, depending on what she said, if she volunteered it or responded to something you asked or said, her background and a zillion other factors, she may really be interested in pursuing a relationship w/ you.

keep your eyes & brain & heart wide open!!
good luck Originally Posted by pmdelites

I agree. Is it possible to make it work? Yes. Is it probable? No Way. As in almost never.

Also, never EVER make an important decision while your dick is hard. That little bastard stops the real brain from working.

So to say most escorts. 99 out of 100 create an illusion, I can agree to that, but It is possible to have a romance in the hobby. Hookers don't hook for life There are many past examples in this hobby do the research, be careful.

She's probably sucking some other dudes dick raw right now this very minute as I'm typing this. And I bet she's fixing to swallow too. Knock yourself out bro!

That’s her job to make u feel that way.

With that being said romance is something that seems to have been lost in the hobby over the past few years. Even in my bp and Craigslist days my Incall was always full of fresh flowers. Guys would bring thoughtful gifts cards ect. At one point I shared an Incall with two other ladies and guys would always come and bring us all lunch coffee or other goodies just to be nice. They would read our showcase and bring our favorite drinks or perfume. Oh and sometimes they would even tip (shock face) Now days those guys would be called suckers and stupid on this board.

I really miss those days.

I still have a few good guys who haven’t lost the romance (y’all know who you are)

I really do appreciate those clients.

That’s her job to make u feel that way.

With that being said romance is something that seems to have been lost in the hobby over the past few years. Even in my bp and Craigslist days my Incall was always full of fresh flowers. Guys would bring thoughtful gifts cards ect. At one point I shared an Incall with two other ladies and guys would always come and bring us all lunch coffee or other goodies just to be nice. They would read our showcase and bring our favorite drinks or perfume. Oh and sometimes they would even tip (shock face) Now days those guys would be called suckers and stupid on this board.

I really miss those days.

I still have a few good guys who haven’t lost the romance (y’all know who you are)

I really do appreciate those clients. Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

This is off-topic, but there are still a few of us left who don't mind "going the extra mile". Yes, we are a dying breed, but one thing I've learned after being in this hobby for more than 20 years is that providers actually do notice if you take the time to read and understand their showcase and/or ads - and some of the time it makes for a better session, for both parties.

Jules, one thing you said in your post REALLY caught my eye: "...They would read our showcase...". Personally, I don't think a lot of the narcissistic Fuck-Tards on here even know how to read anymore. They might be able to pronounce some of the words, but they don't know what the words mean.

Y'all can call me "sucker" and "stupid". Go right ahead. I don't give a damn. I do what I do because I believe its the right thing to do.

Back on topic, recognition that both the provider and the hobbyist are a fellow human beings who have feelings and desires can go a long way towards romance in the hobby. That being said, both experience and statistics show that the success rate of a romance inside the hobby (at least long-term) is still going to be extremely low, so to the OP: Use your brain, think logically as well as emotionally, and make good sound decisions. If you choose to take the risk, who are we to tell you no? It's your life.

And now that I've probably pissed everybody off, I'm going to go eat dinner.

I know since we all are jaded cynics that this is kinda poo pood but I think it may have happened to me. We just seem to fit each others tastes and from what she said, on face value, she is interested to. I'm just not very good and readying social queues but I'm really hoping this is real, I really like this lady. I'm just don't know to take it on face value or not. Ladies, your thoughts?

I'm not going to do a review either, it just doesn't feel right, not sure how to express it. I felt a connection. Originally Posted by theone7885

Did she still make you pay after the session?

That’s her job to make u feel that way.

With that being said romance is something that seems to have been lost in the hobby over the past few years. Even in my bp and Craigslist days my Incall was always full of fresh flowers. Guys would bring thoughtful gifts cards ect. At one point I shared an Incall with two other ladies and guys would always come and bring us all lunch coffee or other goodies just to be nice. They would read our showcase and bring our favorite drinks or perfume. Oh and sometimes they would even tip (shock face) Now days those guys would be called suckers and stupid on this board.

I really miss those days.

I still have a few good guys who haven’t lost the romance (y’all know who you are)

I really do appreciate those clients. Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

I don't think we would be worried about being called sicker here. I think we have been trained to understand that the ladies interpret that as clingy and stalkerish behavior outside of a session.

Guys still bring extra goodies to sessions, don't they?

She didn't even mention the donation but I gave it to her anyway, that was the understanding we had at the beginning and I wanted to honor it.