What's your kink?

Me:

Foot fetish (already well known by anyone paying attention). I used to be kind of shy about it. Not anymore.

I like toys. Actually that's not quite it though. I have a near-fetish for watching (and preferably causing) ladies having real orgasms and toys are a means to that end. My love of DATY also links to this. It may not always produce an orgasm but I like to give pleasure to my companion.

I've never done it but I always thought I might enjoy trying some light BDSM. I do mean light - I'm not into pain, either giving or receiving. Just mild restraint and such. Don't know if I'll ever do it but sounds like something I might like to try at least once.

Other than that I'm really pretty vanilla. More of a sweetheart type than a kinky guy (not that there's anything wrong with that).

Let's see if anyone else will weigh in...

I can honestly say I like this post~

I can honestly say I like this post~ Originally Posted by Sandy

Thanks! I can honestly say I appreciate your comment, for real.

It reads like the emails I get every week.
Other than the foot fetish, have you tried any of the other kinks you mentioned?
But, if you were to come visit me.. I don't know if I could hold off putting you over my knee and spanking your ass good~

It reads like the emails I get every week.
Other than the foot fetish, have you tried any of the other kinks you mentioned?
But, if you were to come visit me.. I don't know if I could hold off putting you over my knee and spanking your ass good~ Originally Posted by Sandy

Lol! Oh sure. I've done it all except the light restraint.

I guess I have spanked a couple of ladies that asked me to (though my handle has nothing to do with spanking). But I'm a rather gentle sort and have a hard time making myself do it with as much vigor as I think they'd like.

To name a few
1. Pegging
2. Ass play
3. Age play
4. Mom/son role play
5. Spanking
6. Foot Fetish
7. Ass worship
8. Edging
9. Sensuous BDSM
10. Golden Showers
11. Foot fetish

Very big... uh... personalities.

Very big... uh... personalities. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Ha ha

I do also have a fondness for getting flexible ladies into bendy positions, as Ginger and others can attest. Not sure whether or not it would be considered a kink.

I do also have a fondness for getting flexible ladies into bendy positions, as Ginger and others can attest. Not sure whether or not it would be considered a kink. Originally Posted by SpankyJ

Someone will consider it a fetish

My kinks seem a little vanilla in comparison, but here are a few things I enjoy:

Nuru
Greek
Body worship
Toys for her

I could never get into the foot fetish. Nothing against it! Everyone has their kink, but personally I'm not too fond of feet. I'd have to say getting messy is a sort of fetish for me. Not like mascara down the face, but a sloppy bj is always nice. Followed by an enthusiastic cof/cim. I've always wanted to go to greece, and the idea of being oiled up head to toe sounds fun.

Midriffs. I have a huge thing for sexy tummies on fit women... Nothing sexier to me then a
toned defined stomach

Used to love TUMA Tried it once since I got sober (1992) t was ok Provider also also gave me prostate massage I also like Greek IF ladies have it listed I do like light spanking IF ladies don't mind Pretty vanila

I could never get into the foot fetish. Nothing against it! Everyone has their kink, but personally I'm not too fond of feet. Originally Posted by Paulll

No offense taken, Paulll, I get that it's something that has little appeal to most people.

It's interesting how foot fetish is the one that will almost always compel some people to say they don't care for it. I'm not specifically talking about Paulll's comment here, just in general. There may be others where that happens but I haven't noticed if there are. I think it might be part of the reason a lot of foot fetish guys are shy about talking about it or even bringing it up to their companions. Many of us learn early on that there is negative sentiment about it and tend to be guarded about it except with those we really trust. That was my experience for a long time anyway.

Anyway, nothing against you Paulll, I know your comment wasn't made with any ill intent. It just started me thinking about this. In my experience, not all, but a few ladies actually seem to enjoy it. A very few really dislike it. And most are happy to accommodate even though it doesn't really do anything for them personally.