If a man does not know whta "Get comfortable" means, he could be a cop? or a newbie?

I had a client who did not know "what to do" when I told him to get comfortable, so I had to let him go. He made me so nervous!

I think you're asking (and please correct me if I'm wrong) the following:

If I say to a client, "Get comfortable," and he doesn't strip, does that mean he's a cop?

I think the answer can only be, "Not necessarily." There is a myth that the police are not permitted to expose their genitals when working undercover, but I know from practical experience this is false and often a cop will do much more than show his wang to make a bust.

Of course, a client who doesn't respond to "get comfortable" could also be a newbie, nervous, a dullard, deaf, a foreigner, or petrified by your beauty. Haha.

To me, the bottom line is: There are no bright-line rules or magic words when LE is trying to set up an undercover prostitution bust. Bear in mind that what was actually said might not necessaily be what the cop puts in his report. As I've said a million times, cops consistently lie to make the evidence better than it actually is.

My advice is, if a client makes you feel uncomfortable for ANY reason, ask them politely to leave or leave yourself, depending on the circumstances. All you'll be out is one fee. That's better than being out thousands of dollars if you're arrested or, god forbid, your life or safety if the client is violent.

Always go with your intuition. If you are uncomfortable, best to end session. I personally like to start getting comfortable as soon as the door closes to set expectations.

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I do not know how many of you have seen this but this is something that I think we can all learn. I haven't seen this on the board yet, but I know that someone probably has it here. I saw this on the news last week and have been trying to find it. I just want you to know that they can do anything they want if they are undercover. Verbage is so important when we are talking to our potential clients. We really need to learn what to say and what not to say. If you are in a sting than you are going to get arrested no matter what, but the best thing to do is be very careful of what you say and it really is best to not say anything if you ask me. Vice is getting outta control here in Houston. Just really out of control. Be careful ladies!

Thank you everybody. That's just what I did. I told him to leave. Gave him his money back and he was gone! but I was soooo scared! Really thought he was LE . Thanks again.

I had a client who did not know "what to do" when I told him to get comfortable, so I had to let him go. He made me so nervous! Originally Posted by Isabel

You were 110% right. Maybe the guy was just stupid, but it's not your job to educate the world. Will he bond you out of jail and hire you a lawyer if you relax your rules and get arrested down the road?

Same thing goes for when a provider asks, "What do you want?," and the man says, "An hour of companionship." If the provider asks, "What does that mean?" The man, unless he's looking to get arrested, should say, "Goodbye!"

Here's your situation in reverse. A woman walks a man into the bedroom and the two have never met before. A good ice breaker is for the man to ask, "Mind if I get comfortable?" If the provider starts asking questions about that, it's time for the man to run.

Of course, if after the man places a donation on the night stand and he shortly thereafter finds his rock hard cock being stroked, his balls being squeezed, gorgeous tits being rubbed in his face, and a sweet lady's mouth sucking the head of his cock, it's probably OK to open up a little.

I know from practical experience this is false and often a cop will do much more than show his wang to make a bust. Originally Posted by ShysterJon

If someone didn't know you do criminal defense work, it'd sound like you've been turning tricks with cops! Lol. Just thought it funny. No harm intended my fellow counselor.

If someone didn't know you do criminal defense work, it'd sound like you've been turning tricks with cops! Lol. Just thought it funny. No harm intended my fellow counselor. Originally Posted by Shackleton

How do you think I paid for Harvard Law School?

From other board posts, it sounds like the police are really getting down in Texas. I think excusing that gentleman (newbie or not) was the best way to go.

You asked whether he could have been a newbie or actually LE. My question is...wouldn't you have known he was a newbie by a lack of references?

i had a girl who said she had a call n it went down smooth n before she left the guy says oh hey BTW im a cop hope to see you again.

and now from a different perspective.

if a provider tells me to get comfortable, i almost cant stand that,
i had a session go like this.
she opens the door, i walk in, she welcomes me, then its mostly downhill for me after that. she says go upstairs, put the donation on the table, get comfortable, wait on the bed. OMG. please

where in all that is there any GFE.
I prefer, walk in get a nice hug as a greeting, can i get you a drink. (lets be clear i dont drink but once a lady offered me bottle water which is still a drink.) sit down she sits down next to me, chit chat, and slowly move on to other things. without someone directing traffic.
i mean honestly why does it even need to be talked about. but thats just my humble opinion. i cannot recall hearing that in my last ten or more sessions. normally its hey we are unbalanced here lets fix that, and stuff starts flying. speaking of flying, i imagine i set myself up here so let me have it, but really i am sticking to my guns.

peace
atx
soon to be S.E.B.

i had no idea what it meant till just recently. im with atxrefman...i like a lil gfe...i like to peal of the layers of clothes....rather than just get balls out in a cold room.

You were 110% right. Maybe the guy was just stupid, but it's not your job to educate the world. Will he bond you out of jail and hire you a lawyer if you relax your rules and get arrested down the road?

Same thing goes for when a provider asks, "What do you want?," and the man says, "An hour of companionship." If the provider asks, "What does that mean?" The man, unless he's looking to get arrested, should say, "Goodbye!"

Here's your situation in reverse. A woman walks a man into the bedroom and the two have never met before. A good ice breaker is for the man to ask, "Mind if I get comfortable?" If the provider starts asking questions about that, it's time for the man to run.

Of course, if after the man places a donation on the night stand and he shortly thereafter finds his rock hard cock being stroked, his balls being squeezed, gorgeous tits being rubbed in his face, and a sweet lady's mouth sucking the head of his cock, it's probably OK to open up a little. Originally Posted by sky_wire

lol

you guys are funny. Yes Jon is right. A cop can do whatever the hell he/she wants and it is all ok.

If it does not feel right babe... no matter what... don't do it.

Like on Pretty Woman. You say who, you say when, you say how much. In other words you are in control of that much.