So I'm in shock! I get a message from someone saying "I'm interested with a very gfe cuddly date, the cuddling is extremely important I've never had it included in a date."
I looked at his join date and go "Hmmmmm, he's only been in the hobby a year so maybe he doesn't hobby often or maybe he is an energizer bunny that doesn't stop until it's time to get dressed and leave." I pull up his list...i kid you not... 48 vouches in a year... So I'm thinking okay complete energizer bunny type I'm in for a wild 2 hours tonight! I get to talking and he then tells me he's a one and done and has to be careful because he has a hair trigger. I ask if he likes it really long and drawn out teasing and edging he said no just don't be aggressive and when it happens it happens.
How in the hell is this guy booking multihour gfe one and done dates with no cuddling or leaving the room to go do stuff?
I am a cuddle slut, I love to cuddle! If I'm not cuddling during pillow talk or downtime I'm caressing or massaging.
The thing is us ladies don't know what other ladies do we just guess or only know what we are told. Am i the lone cuddler wierdo? Is cuddling too personal for some like kissing?
Does gfe not equal snuggles to all?
I asked him if I could post about it and he said sure and that he was curious what the different interpretations of gfe are too.