Asking a girl out in real world....

I guess the topic belongs here. But Does it take more courage to ask a girl out in real world than to ask a provider for an hour "date"?. I seem to be a little reserved when trying to ask a girl out , but no reservation to call a provider for a "date"?
am I getting spoiled or it is just easier ?

grow a pair

It's as easy as ordering a pizza most times getting an escort. Takes a little game and balls to ask for a date, there is the chance the girl says no. An escort, if you got the money honey she gots the time. Even if the escort for some reason says no its not a big deal, you just call the next one.

As zed said, grow a pair. Don't let escorts be the only girls you can talk to.

It's as easy as ordering a pizza most times getting an escort. Takes a little game and balls to ask for a date, there is the chance the girl says no. An escort, if you got the money honey she gots the time. Even if the escort for some reason says no its not a big deal, you just call the next one.

As zed said, grow a pair. Don't let escorts be the only girls you can talk to. Originally Posted by trey

I agree with both Trey and Zed....its about money and nothing more with a provider....your paying her to live out whatever fantasy is in your head at that time. Don't ever confuse reality with fantasy and you'll be fine.

What... The... Fuck... Over...

You fucking serious???? This isn't grade school. If the only way you're talking to women is through the hobby you need to get out of the bubble.

Fucking Napoleon Dynamite could get ass

What... The... Fuck... Over...

You fucking serious???? This isn't grade school. If the only way you're talking to women is through the hobby you need to get out of the bubble.

Fucking Napoleon Dynamite could get ass Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

Pretty much that is how it is been for almost 2 years now. I get stiffy I call someone. I don't know if that is because of laziness or being less of Napoleon dynamite.

Pretty much that is how it is been for almost 2 years now. I get stiffy I call someone. I don't know if that is because of laziness or being less of Napoleon dynamite. Originally Posted by coffeelover351

Either way your a target

I agree. This isn't grade school and just ask. If you continually get shot down and have the need to fuck, just do some browsing on here. That's why I decided to start hobbying. Too many goddamn chicks not returning phone calls or not sticking by her word.

Get a gym membership, and use it. Go to the mall and buy some trendy clothes. Get your haircut at least twice a month.

Go out to bars where hot women hang out, preferably more than twice a week. Drink heavily, socialize, and dance with the chicks.

Say your hobby budget for the month is $500, that same 500 can get you way more civilian pussy, if you spend it properly. And civilian pussy is a million times better than bought pussy.

Pretty much that is how it is been for almost 2 years now. I get stiffy I call someone. I don't know if that is because of laziness or being less of Napoleon dynamite. Originally Posted by coffeelover351

To try and get to the bottom of this, we need to know what "triggered" this two years ago.

OP, in RL you'd be surprised at how many women who are gorgeous and beautiful (perfect in a man's eye) get passed over because of the wrong assumptions most men make regarding them. Most as in MOST of them are cool as hell, down to earh, and horny! I'm assuming the fems you approach in life have been average, assuming you have a better chance with them. Those are the group you'll find much more of the mean and highly trifling behaviors in more so than the beautes. Kick them to the curb and go for the beautes! Don't take yourself so seriously, make fun of yourself and make her laugh. Liqour her up, then you'd really be surprised at what happens BCD.

The bus stop and tell the gals your monkeypaw.

Seriously they are all females. I don't see it as much of a difference. If you developed decent hobby skills and can act like a gentlemen you shouldn't have too much trouble asking civies out.

Get over your shyness, just relax, be yourself and ask.

As easy as it is to ask a provider is she's free to see you... It's that easy to ask a regular girl if she wants to meet up for a drink. It's just a question, and her response (just like the provider's) has little enough to do with you.

Quit looking and acting needy .... be a little disinterested, not aloof, just don't give a rat's ass one way or another, and always be curtious, polite, and gentlemanly, no matter how much they paw at you to try to find out why you are really not interested in getting in their pants.

"OP, in RL you'd be surprised at how many women who are gorgeous and beautiful (perfect in a man's eye) get passed over because of the wrong assumptions most men make regarding them." Mijo.

I agree with Mijo's assessment ... just remember ...

.... an 18-wheeler rig and a Maserati cost you about the same,

..... which one do you want to drive to have fun?