Swingers

What’s the swinger scene like in Dallas?

Pretty good from my, albeit, relatively limited understanding. If you have the $$$, Colette's is pretty poppin and I would highly recommend it based on my experiences there. I've heard mixed about Players as well. Lido's is generally a miss unless you're into the gay scene but has the diamond in the rough potential.

There is a little neighborhood joint called Z Bar out in Flower Mound that is known for having a swingers clique as well.

Other than that, I'd get involved on SDC or Fetlife and reach out to locals involved in the scene.

Literally THOUSANDS of people involved in the swing lifestyle in the metroplex. Clubs, socials, meet and greets, house parties, private parties, couple hook-ups, etc. It's really transitioned from couples only/same room type thing into a ton of singles being involved.

Check out swinglifestyle.com and Swingdateclub SDC.net

SDC has an app which is quite handy. I'd start there

as soon as Colette's opened it took the Lifestyle to a whole different level/ plateau.

SDC has been around for years and has slowly become a top tier website for couples & single ladies. Hedonism II, Jamaica, the Tour Boats, gosh the memories I shared with my ex wife. Gentlemen will always take the backseat unless they are invited by a couple. Been this way since the stone age.

I was married to a bisexual woman from 89' to 2000. Do you think I cheated ? Have you lost your marbles ?

13th Floor, what memories at that establishment!! In the middle of a rock yard. Several Verified Providers were spotted getting their freak on! I wont mention any names.

Lidos Really ? Save yourself the horror stories. You'll thank me later.

Anyone remember the dump north of I-20 in Duncanville? Cant remember the name, maybe (Red Door) it was a Dump Deluxe and the other onsite party house was Inner Circles, south of I-20 in Duncanville/Cedar Hill. The city lines are sketchy in that area so the exact City maybe incorrect.

Inner Circles got busted by Dallas Under Cover shortly after they moved to the Mockingbird neighborhood near the Dallas Tollway. Gaming tables were seized, TAB got involved, City of Dallas employee was arrested cant remember the exact charges/details but it got fugly in the Headlines of the Dallas Morning News.

as soon as Colette's opened it took the Lifestyle to a whole different level/ plateau.

SDC has been around for years and has slowly become a top tier website for couples & single ladies. Hedonism II, Jamaica, the Tour Boats, gosh the memories I shared with my ex wife. Gentlemen will always take the backseat unless they are invited by a couple. Been this way since the stone age.

I was married to a bisexual woman from 89' to 2000. Do you think I cheated ? Have you lost your marbles ?

13th Floor, what memories at that establishment!! In the middle of a rock yard. Several Verified Providers were spotted getting their freak on! I wont mention any names.

Lidos Really ? Save yourself the horror stories. You'll thank me later.

Anyone remember the dump north of I-20 in Duncanville? Cant remember the name, maybe (Red Door) it was a Dump Deluxe and the other onsite party house was Inner Circles, south of I-20 in Duncanville/Cedar Hill. The city lines are sketchy in that area so the exact City maybe incorrect.

Inner Circles got busted by Dallas Under Cover shortly after they moved to the Mockingbird neighborhood near the Dallas Tollway. Gaming tables were seized, TAB got involved, City of Dallas employee was arrested cant remember the exact charges/details but it got fugly in the Headlines of the Dallas Morning News. Originally Posted by 'TUNACAN'

Super sad about 13th Floor closing. That place was amazing.


In Ducanville, are you talking about The Cherry Pit?

^^^^^ Yep the Cherry Pit. I was there for the night of the big bust. I've not seen action anywhere else since then that has come close to the fun at the CP. It wasn't in a bad area, always packed, eclectic group, 3 level house in a residential area. The only real issue was with the parking situation and the neighbors complaining. It was there for about 12 years.


I've had my share of fun at the 13th floor too.

^^^^^ Yep the Cherry Pit. I was there for the night of the big bust. I've not seen action anywhere else since then that has come close to the fun at the CP. It wasn't in a bad area, always packed, eclectic group, 3 level house in a residential area. The only real issue was with the parking situation and the neighbors complaining. It was there for about 12 years.


I've had my share of fun at the 13th floor too. Originally Posted by alaine

Is there anything like the 13th Floor anymore? We went only a few times before it closed down. Loved the relaxed, laid back vibes. Places like Collette and Players seem more clubby? 13th felt like a welcoming house party.

I was wondering about this as well.....my wife and I are coming down to Dallas Saturday 6/29 and she is really wanting a female to play with. We have never looked into the scene in Dallas so unsure of where to go other than Collettes. We have nice suite downtown if any ladies on here are interested in a good looking fit couple......

I think it's the luck of the draw. However we went to the 13th floor a few years ago and as a hot milf rode my cock 2 guys fucked her in the ass. She didn't even turn around to see who it was and I seem to remember anal is against to rules. Sometimes you get lucky. Sometimes you don't.

My gf and I have been on SLS a while. Only ever met with a couple once just for drinks. Met a cute single girl once, also just got drinks. Never heard back after.
Haven’t logged in since last year. Felt like a waste of time and energy with so many flakes. Also a common trend was we’d get messages from a “couple”, set up a date, then at the last minute “Hey my wife can’t make it, want to have some mfm fun?”
Got sick of that bullshit real quick.

My gf and I have been on SLS a while. Only ever met with a couple once just for drinks. Met a cute single girl once, also just got drinks. Never heard back after.
Haven’t logged in since last year. Felt like a waste of time and energy with so many flakes. Also a common trend was we’d get messages from a “couple”, set up a date, then at the last minute “Hey my wife can’t make it, want to have some mfm fun?”
Got sick of that bullshit real quick. Originally Posted by Dersieger

Plus SLS feels like one step removed from a printed newsletter. The interface just feels awkward.


We met another couple from SLS; went of a few dates. Ended up at 13th Floor. Turns out she was not into it at all. Nothing dramatic, just fell flat. I think they ended up divorcing.

I was wondering about this as well.....my wife and I are coming down to Dallas Saturday 6/29 and she is really wanting a female to play with. We have never looked into the scene in Dallas so unsure of where to go other than Collettes. We have nice suite downtown if any ladies on here are interested in a good looking fit couple...... Originally Posted by Footballguy79

Players....I have a blast there when i ho...I mean go lmao

Goin to collete tomorrow

SDC trumps SLS by a wide margin in Texas. SLS is more north eastern, but the owners of the site are on a mission to make it as non user friendly as possible.

I was wondering about this as well.....my wife and I are coming down to Dallas Saturday 6/29 and she is really wanting a female to play with. We have never looked into the scene in Dallas so unsure of where to go other than Collettes. We have nice suite downtown if any ladies on here are interested in a good looking fit couple......

If you want a female to play with get an escort for the night. You are extremely unlikely to find a single women and beat out all the competition on any site or any club. Colettes is essentially a dance club where you can have sex.

Is there anything like the 13th Floor anymore?

There are house parties and private groups. Pretty close knit groups for obvious reasons.

Lidos Really ? Save yourself the horror stories. You'll thank me later.

+1 to this. LIDOS is BAD.