GETTING FROM A TO B Pricing......?

While were all different, were all try to get from Point A to Point B.

Hobbyist / Providers: What are your expectations? Session Time? Services? Pricing? It would be interesting to see what the MAJORITY are really looking for in a "Session"

Let's here from the guy on a budget to the guy who has no budget. Let’s hear from the gal who has bills to pay and the gal who shops at Neiman Marcus (Needless Mark Up!)

Let’s exclude the guys driving around late at night in undesirable areas asking gals if they want to make $20.00 the hard way! Also the gals who wear wigs, have handlers close by who say things like "Wanna Date Baby?"

If you are looking for the majority view I suspect I am not it, but here is mine:

Session time: a minimum of two hrs, preferably 3+. Overnights with ladies I have seen before and know we’ll have enough in common to stay interested until breakfast. While on time is nice, I block the whole evening even if it is only scheduled to be a couple hours, so running a little late doesn’t bother me a lot.

Services: attitude and personality are more important to me that a specific list of activities. In fact, my preference is for a lady to show me what she thinks she does best. It’s like going to a quality restaurant and ordering the chef’s special. She is usually determined to show me why it’s what she does best, it provides variety, and I have rarely been disappointed. Also I want her to show me what she enjoys—a happy chef makes for a happy customer. This business is best when there is trust, and I find this is one way to develop some.

Pricing: obviously as a consumer I prefer to get more for less, but I also am willing to pay for quality. I don’t expect to pay the same for a McD’s lunch as I do at a top end restaurant. I rarely can afford to go above 300, but I will rather save up and see a lady I want to see for several hours than see several ladies who are less expensive but not who I want to see.

Location: I prefer outcalls but that is not a hard preference; outcalls let me make sure the mood will be good with music, candles, refreshments, etc. If it is an incall the two things that matter are clean and safe. Non-smoking is nice, but if it’s on her turf I know that may not be the case.

The lady: I have no particular “must” or “won’t”, but I do have preferences. Usually 35-45 or so, bright, good communicator, friendly attitude. Secondary are specific looks, though I admit I like long dark hair with violet eyes.

And the bottom line expectations: I expect to look back when either she or I leave and feel it was a good investment. I also want her to feel it was worth her time. If each of us feel we got more than we were expecting it was a great date and there will likely be more.

If you are looking for the majority view I suspect I am not it, but here is mine:

Session time: a minimum of two hrs, preferably 3+. Overnights with ladies I have seen before and know we’ll have enough in common to stay interested until breakfast. While on time is nice, I block the whole evening even if it is only scheduled to be a couple hours, so running a little late doesn’t bother me a lot.

Services: attitude and personality are more important to me that a specific list of activities. In fact, my preference is for a lady to show me what she thinks she does best. It’s like going to a quality restaurant and ordering the chef’s special. She is usually determined to show me why it’s what she does best, it provides variety, and I have rarely been disappointed. Also I want her to show me what she enjoys—a happy chef makes for a happy customer. This business is best when there is trust, and I find this is one way to develop some.

Pricing: obviously as a consumer I prefer to get more for less, but I also am willing to pay for quality. I don’t expect to pay the same for a McD’s lunch as I do at a top end restaurant. I rarely can afford to go above 300, but I will rather save up and see a lady I want to see for several hours than see several ladies who are less expensive but not who I want to see.

Location: I prefer outcalls but that is not a hard preference; outcalls let me make sure the mood will be good with music, candles, refreshments, etc. If it is an incall the two things that matter are clean and safe. Non-smoking is nice, but if it’s on her turf I know that may not be the case.

The lady: I have no particular “must” or “won’t”, but I do have preferences. Usually 35-45 or so, bright, good communicator, friendly attitude. Secondary are specific looks, though I admit I like long dark hair with violet eyes.

And the bottom line expectations: I expect to look back when either she or I leave and feel it was a good investment. I also want her to feel it was worth her time. If each of us feel we got more than we were expecting it was a great date and there will likely be more. Originally Posted by Old-T

Insightful and thought provoking assessment OLD-T! I guess I'll weigh in an attempt to depict the range of out looks.

When I'm shopping, I look for the following:
1) Are the pictures accurate and have they been doctored.
2) What story is their provider telling with their pictures.
3) Is the description, ie: age, weight in sink with the pictures.
4) Try to determine if provider is low or high volume.
5) Scan reviews for services & price.
6) TCB skills a must or it’s a dead end.
7) Disregard minimum multiple hour providers with rates above $300 per hour.
8) Natural Breasts.
9) Excessive tattoos and piercing are a no go.

Expectations:
1) Provider looks like her pictures
2) Provider to be Friendly and accommodating.
3) Excellent hygiene.
4) Neat & Clean in call.

When do I repeat:
1) When a provider genuinely shows interest in my satisfaction.
2) Fun to be with.
3) Enjoyable conversation.

When I don't repeat:
1) Clock watcher
2) Takes or makes calls or text during a session.
3) Unexpected surprises (Some one else there or dogs & cats)

My range in age is + or - 25 to 60. No rhyme or reason. It depends on availability and mood I guess. It would seem I see providers 26-36 the most. My repeats are usually 30-40. More often than not I see brunettes.

ATF'S:
1) Brunette, 36 years of age, B Cup, 5'6" (Three years)
2) Brunette, 34 years of age, C Cup, 5'7" (Two years)
3) Blonde, 24 years of age, B Cup, 5'6" (12+ appointments)
4) Red Head, 32 years of age, C Cup, 5'7" (10+ appointments)

FACTS:
1) I have never and will never pay for a provider’s time for lunch, dinner or week end get away. While I of coarse pick up all expenses, I only pay for actual session time. And I do not allow free sessions. I keep everything as a business relationship. Makes things much easier that way!

I am looking for at least 1 1/2 hours to 2 hours and sometimes 3 hours. I want time to get to know the lady and have conversation and interaction as well as the other activities.

I want a lady that enjoys her time with me as much as I expect to enjoy my time with her. Many talk about looks and body, but to me attitude, conversation and finding the right chemistry is more important. I am not there strictly for the bedroom activities, I am also after quality companionship and want a GFE which is my opinion is kissing, talking and enjoying each others compansionship.

From a pricing perspective, I cannot handle extremely high dollar visits. Too close to retirement and trying to save and prepare for that. I prefer ladies in the $200 to $300 range. I agree with Old-T, that I will save up for more time for a lady I really enjoy to spending for shorter visits with several ladies. The economy has slowed down my hobbying some, but I still save up for the special ladies I want to spend time with. It just takes a little longer.

I prefer ladies over 40 being an older gentleman myself, but I do have a couple of ladies in the 30's that are extremely enjoyable. I am not too interested in ladies in the 20 year old range not to say I would not, but they are not at the top of my list. The more mature ladies seem to possess more of the traits I am looking for and the desire to provide a truly enjoyable experience.

The number one criteria and most important for any lady is attitude and good personality.

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FACTS:
1) I have never and will never pay for a provider’s time for lunch, dinner or week end get away. While I of coarse pick up all expenses, I only pay for actual session time. And I do not allow free sessions. I keep everything as a business relationship. Makes things much easier that way!



That is a good rule to go by.

I don't have session and thus don't have expectations of such.

but I do enjoy dates and the only expectation I have of my date. Is to be a gentleman who's open-minded! Nothing more, nothing less.

While were all different, were all try to get from Point A to Point B.

Hobbyist / Providers: What are your expectations? Session Time? Services? Pricing? It would be interesting to see what the MAJORITY are really looking for in a "Session"

Let's here from the guy on a budget to the guy who has no budget. Let’s hear from the gal who has bills to pay and the gal who shops at Neiman Marcus (Needless Mark Up!)

Let’s exclude the guys driving around late at night in undesirable areas asking gals if they want to make $20.00 the hard way! Also the gals who wear wigs, have handlers close by who say things like "Wanna Date Baby?"


Originally Posted by Still Looking

I don't have session and thus don't have expectations of such.

but I do enjoy dates and the only expectation I have of my date. Is to be a gentleman who's open-minded! Nothing more, nothing less. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

I totally AGREE, and if any gal had legs like your avatar holding a bottle of
Chateau Lafite Rothschild

they would always be called dates and never sessions!

I am looking for at least 1 1/2 hours to 2 hours and sometimes 3 hours. I want time to get to know the lady and have conversation and interaction as well as the other activities.

I want a lady that enjoys her time with me as much as I expect to enjoy my time with her. Many talk about looks and body, but to me attitude, conversation and finding the right chemistry is more important. I am not there strictly for the bedroom activities, I am also after quality companionship and want a GFE which is my opinion is kissing, talking and enjoying each others compansionship.

From a pricing perspective, I cannot handle extremely high dollar visits. Too close to retirement and trying to save and prepare for that. I prefer ladies in the $200 to $300 range. I agree with Old-T, that I will save up for more time for a lady I really enjoy to spending for shorter visits with several ladies. The economy has slowed down my hobbying some, but I still save up for the special ladies I want to spend time with. It just takes a little longer.

I prefer ladies over 40 being an older gentleman myself, but I do have a couple of ladies in the 30's that are extremely enjoyable. I am not too interested in ladies in the 20 year old range not to say I would not, but they are not at the top of my list. The more mature ladies seem to possess more of the traits I am looking for and the desire to provide a truly enjoyable experience.

The number one criteria and most important for any lady is attitude and good personality.

Top Originally Posted by topsgt38801

ditto----works both ways too!

ditto----works both ways too! Originally Posted by DallasRain

D,

You got it. Always treat as you would like to be treated. Another point is always be repectful to the ladies. They are working to provide for your enjoyment and you should be for theirs too so always treat a lady with the respect they deserve.

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I agree with the excellent statements everyone has made with the exception of: "I have never and will never pay for a provider’s time for lunch, dinner or week end get away. While I of coarse pick up all expenses, I only pay for actual session time."

That is certainly a valid choice, but I fail to understand the distinction between a "session" with a lady and paying for her time, as isn't that what's compensated for to begin with? I suppose that goes back to the difference between "escort" and "provider," which is why I usually just call myself a companion as I am both. I'm generous with time and definitely don't expect a gentleman to pay for every moment I spend with him outside of the specifics that I mention on my website or other terms agreed to in advance, but I'm negotiable on open-ended engagements and also have patrons who request companionship outside of the bedroom arena. Seems to me that distinguishing between a "session" and any other date perpetuates a stereotype.

When spending time with a gentleman, I very much appreciate respect, honesty, a sense of humor, and the ability to communicate clearly and effectively so that everyone is on the same page.

D,

You got it. Always treat as you would like to be treated. Another point is always be repectful to the ladies. They are working to provide for your enjoyment and you should be for theirs too so always treat a lady with the respect they deserve.

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Spoken like the true gentleman you are TopSgt

Spoken like the true gentleman you are TopSgt Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Thank you SNL.

I was raised in the south and respect and manners have always been instilled in me for years. I do like to think that I treat all ladies like a true southern gentleman should. I am somewhat old fashioned in those beliefs and guess it goes with becoming an old man who has reached a higher level of wisdom than in my youngster days.

Thank you again for the nice comment gracious lady.

well said and I would like to add..I perfer they be respectful, have a sense of humor, and be themselves and just desire to have fun....

I don't have session and thus don't have expectations of such.

but I do enjoy dates and the only expectation I have of my date. Is to be a gentleman who's open-minded! Nothing more, nothing less. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

FACTS:
1) I have never and will never pay for a provider’s time for lunch, dinner or week end get away. While I of coarse pick up all expenses, I only pay for actual session time. And I do not allow free sessions. I keep everything as a business relationship. Makes things much easier that way!



That is a good rule to go by. Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

We would get along just fine! I think we're both on the same page. I wouldn't expect more or less.

FACTS:
1) I have never and will never pay for a provider’s time for lunch, dinner or week end get away. While I of coarse pick up all expenses, I only pay for actual session time. And I do not allow free sessions. I keep everything as a business relationship. Makes things much easier that way!

That is a good rule to go by. Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

Just me... YMMV!

I agree with the excellent statements everyone has made with the exception of: "I have never and will never pay for a provider’s time for lunch, dinner or week end get away. While I of coarse pick up all expenses, I only pay for actual session time."

That is certainly a valid choice, but I fail to understand the distinction between a "session" with a lady and paying for her time, as isn't that what's compensated for to begin with? I suppose that goes back to the difference between "escort" and "provider," which is why I usually just call myself a companion as I am both. I'm generous with time and definitely don't expect a gentleman to pay for every moment I spend with him outside of the specifics that I mention on my website or other terms agreed to in advance, but I'm negotiable on open-ended engagements and also have patrons who request companionship outside of the bedroom arena. Seems to me that distinguishing between a "session" and any other date perpetuates a stereotype.

When spending time with a gentleman, I very much appreciate respect, honesty, a sense of humor, and the ability to communicate clearly and effectively so that everyone is on the same page.

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

I'll be happy to explain my position. Let’s see how can I put this.... I only pay for BCD time! When a HOT provider takes care of Little Still Looking, Big Still Looking has a reasonability to compensate for that service! Eating lunch, having dinner, flying to Las Vegas, staying at the Bellagio, seeing shows, and enjoying time together... ah no! I don't BUY friendship! But hey, if you can get a guy to come over and paint the trim on your house and have him pay you... Rock On! But I suspect your either going to get out your check book or compensate him in one way or another! The best times in life are the “Sweet N Little” ones we all share with friends we care about! Why do I suddenly have an urge to find a lady wearing a red dress and eat berries? Life is good!