Questions

Hello, new guy to the hobby. Quick question. Is it “Bad Business” to ask for special requests from providers?

What do you consider special requests?

Most "reputable" providers will not discuss anything along those lines until you meet face to face. Check and see if the provider that you are thinking of has a website. Many have contact info where you can send an email and ask those questions, however, read her website first. The information that you seek may very well already be on her site. To use your words, it's bad business to ask questions where they are already clearly spelled out on her site.

Good luck.

Like if you have a fetish or kink. Or if you have something that you like.

Like if you have a fetish or kink. Or if you have something that you like.

Do your research. Like Livin said if she has a website or reviews go read all you can and your answers may be there. If not the best suggestion I can give is find someone you like. Contact her and go through the normal procedure she requires and set up the first date. Don’t ask for anything special or even talk about anything else beside the first visit. If the first visit goes well then when you’re putting your shoes on ask your questions about what she would be willing to do if you saw her again.

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