IOP very important quality?

There are many reasons why we hobby..., among them, among mine is IOP. I think a fantasy is being agreed upon, an escape from regular sexual encounters from amateurs. Like the saying goes, amateurs try to get it right professionals are paid to not get it wrong. It was a point I wanted to explore, wanted to know if I'm alone on this? I love when it when a provider makes me feel like I'm the best dick ever. I understand it's just an act for a few hours but it should be just as important as beauty and talent.

I know I'm not the best dick ever, and a provider's BS will never come close to disabusing me of that knowledge.

But I still like to be able to think that I'm a nice guy, and so it's much easier to believe it when a provider says, "I enjoyed spending time with you," or "You're a really cool guy," or something similar that gives my ego a little boost in that regard. On those rare occasions when it's happened, it was an extension of, rather than instead of, a session where she did an excellent job of pretending to enjoy the physical activities as well.

I understand you thought process. I am pretty new to the hobby. When I started, I thought certain things were important, and others not. I really like greek and thought that was a must. Kissing and IOP was unimportant. I have now learned what I like and what I want. Greek isn't required. Kissing and IOP are now very important. My second experience was very much all business. I realized busting a nut isn't the be-all end-all of an encounter. Another provider experience was so good. It wasn't just because she was a 10, it was because she made me feel like a 10.

While I love and appreciate a hot young body, I've also discovered it isn't the most important factor. Age isn't a factor. The youngest was neither the best or worst. Same with the oldest. And that was over a fairly large age spread. My favorite so far is in the middle, isn't the most beautiful, nor does she have huge boobs. She doesn't resemble what I would have imagined to be my favorite. Her IOP is a ten. I understand it is an illusion, but for that hour, it means a lot.

Many hobbyists are about the busting of the nut and hotness of the provider. Some are us value the IOP far more than just the orgasm. A provider should take this into account, as I think the latter group is more likely to be a repeat or regular client. They are probably more likely not to be bargain shoppers, too.

Another provider experience was so good. It wasn't just because she was a 10, it was because she made me feel like a 10. Originally Posted by mag7315

yes.. I think the bottom line is we don't like a Provider so much for who she is, but how she makes us feel.. which is empowering to ladies, because that takes age, race, body size out of the equation (or certainly limits the efficacy of those factors)..

yes.. I think the bottom line is we don't like a Provider so much for who she is, but how she makes us feel.. which is empowering to ladies, because that takes age, race, body size out of the equation (or certainly limits the efficacy of those factors).. Originally Posted by Chung Tran

Well said Chung.

Some guys hobby for the IOP and others just want a fuck toy...

I've paid for play myself in various relationships I've been in...and IOP is at the top of the list for me...

I like the fantasy of the hobby....its exciting and fun imo

It wasn't just because she was a 10, it was because she made me feel like a 10.

This ^^^^

Well said, Mag7315.

I have been with old, young, skinny, BBW, and every color imaginable. IOP is the singularly most important thing that separates an OK interlude with an OMG!! interlude. I know I am old, out of shape and that I am not someone you would really date for real but walk in dressed like you have been anticipating our meeting all day. Let's have a session where I am your sole purpose in life. Yes, I know it is all an illusion but I like the departure from reality!!

Oh, and Analeese, I will play grandfather for you and you won't even have to pay for play. My IOP is off the charts!!

There are many reasons why we hobby..., among them, among mine is IOP. I think a fantasy is being agreed upon, an escape from regular sexual encounters from amateurs. Like the saying goes, amateurs try to get it right professionals are paid to not get it wrong. It was a point I wanted to explore, wanted to know if I'm alone on this? I love when it when a provider makes me feel like I'm the best dick ever. I understand it's just an act for a few hours but it should be just as important as beauty and talent. Originally Posted by Fonzy_ie

what does I O P MEAN

Illusion of Passion or
It's only pretend.

Thank you

I only need a wet pussy to tell me I'm doing something right, I don't like all the fake stuff that comes in the hobby, these women are put through a lot by doing this in the first place, now you want them to fake enjoying sucking/fucking a old fat men, some older than your grandpa....talk about being in the zone

I get really turned on when I am being fucked. It is no illusion. If a cock is rubbing my clit I show lots of passion and makes me talk dirty. I also love it when the guy shows lots of passion and talks dirty to me. So IOP goes both ways with fucksluts like me))

I dont expect a provider to make me feel like they love me. As long as she does what is advised or agreed upon and we both have mutual respect thats what counts. I might get some slack on this but iop can be a bad thing. As a hobbyist you should find a provider that physically stimulus you and not so much emotionally. In not saying just have robotic intercource sure laughing and talking or finding someone you get a long with is great but looking for someone that makes you think they love you will lead you down the rabbit hole.

I have been with old, young, skinny, BBW, and every color imaginable. IOP is the singularly most important thing that separates an OK interlude with an OMG!! interlude. I know I am old, out of shape and that I am not someone you would really date for real but walk in dressed like you have been anticipating our meeting all day. Let's have a session where I am your sole purpose in life. Yes, I know it is all an illusion but I like the departure from reality!!

Oh, and Analeese, I will play grandfather for you and you won't even have to pay for play. My IOP is off the charts!! Originally Posted by Traveler63

I've met alot of dirty old grandpas and i absolutely love it...

Are you sure you would be faking?
A moment with your cock in my mouth and you'll be like putty in my hands...

IOP is critical to me. Nobody wants to feel like it's ALL business, even if it is.