Had this happen recently, where a lady referred to me as 'daddy' a couple of times during the session. First of all, I'm a middle-aged white male who is not quite 40 yet, and I personally found it a bit off-putting. I'm guessing that blacks or really older men might find this kind of thing appealing, but at LEAST wait til I'm like 60 before you start calling me that Originally Posted by WorknManIm a middle aged black man, being called daddy is not a turn on to me, in fact it is quite annoying. So I am not sure were you get the assumption this is something prefered by blacks. You probabaly could have got your point across without referencing race.......................... just saying