Question about tipping

Good afternoon everyone. I am looking for honest feedback about tipping providers, from both sides of the fence.

I have seen 4 (2 still active and 2 retired or UTR) providers in the past several years from here and I have plans for another soon. I realize this is my first post but I stay very UTR and I'm genuinely curious about this. In the past I just made an assumption about the person I was seeing based on reviews and tipped in the upfront donation envelope. Thinking back now this was probably foolish on my part.

So my questions are:
When seeing a provider how is tipping actually handled? After the session and in a separate envelope, or after and just handing over money directly and complimenting them on the session?

Does anyone have guidelines for how much, such as a percentage or flat amount?

I did do some searching on here, but I did not come up with much information on this topic. If someone has a thread to direct me to I would be happy to read up.

Thanks for the feedback.

Seven years and one post? And it's about tipping?

I will no longer use GrubHub because they force you to tip up front. If the driver takes too long and I get cold food or missing items....he still gets the same tip as he would have if he had done his job better.

So, yeah.... including a tip in the envelope could be considered "foolish". But I don't like envelopes anyway. There could be anything in there lol

I would say to tip what you feel the service was worth over the original rate. Place it in sight and give your compliments.

My theory is to tip after the session. I usually just put the tip next to the envelope or the donation that I put out when I arrived but after the session is over. Some ladies required an envelope with the donation inside while others just want you to put the donation out in plain sight to start the session. My rule of thumb is that if the session goes well I usually leave a $50 tip. If the session was not good I don't feel giving a tip is justified.

+1

Thanks for the feedback and it kind of goes along with what I was thinking.

I figured I would catch grief about my first post in 7 years, but hey we all have to start somewhere. If it makes you feel better I was on ASPD for several years as well and probably only had 4 or 5 posts and 1 review of LilRed Robin back in the day.

I generally always tip as I was trained to be nice respectful and make the lady feel always special . She is special to me for that time and that moment. The tip varies with their attitude their service and their full attention to my satisfaction. It's a great gesture gentleman even if you do not visit them again....

Here are some related threads. Might help.


https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...hlight=tipping


https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...hlight=tipping

I always mention a tip up front and do follow thru but only with a provider that offers an enthusiastic fun fuck, BBBJ & CIM. Those are my criteria and I am often too generous but almost always have a very nice time OR save a few $$$$$.

I generally always tip as I was trained to be nice respectful .. Originally Posted by CuSoon

By whom?

I only tip when I get to know someone...and they seem cool to me...that's usually after at least 3 visits in. Otherwise that's my lotto ticket money.

A provider will always appreciate a tip.

$40 should be the minimum.

Put it with the entire donation. It makes me nervous to have extra cash pulled out during a sesh (even if it's at the end.)

Hope this helps.

$40 should be the minimum.

Put it with the entire donation. It makes me nervous to have extra cash pulled out during a sesh (even if it's at the end.) Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

Minimum $40.00 tip. Before the session? Uh, I don't think so, dear.

I only pack 1.3" of dangling death, the lady only gets the tip.

Minimum $40.00 tip. Before the session? Uh, I don't think so, dear. Originally Posted by bbkid

I never said anything about beforehand; you inferred this. I personally have no preference if compensation is laid down before or after a sesh; my point was, do not pull out your wallet and bring out extra cash at any point during a sesh. That is the part that makes me nervous.

In my experience, most gents who tip have already decided they will, before they even meet the lady, because that is just the kind of person they are. (When I have hobbied as the client, this is how I played it.)

So my point is, have it ready to go in an easy way - either with the rest of the donation , or perhaps folded up in a pocket where it is easy to grab - and lay it down discreetly, if you must do it at the end of the sesh.


Now, as far as amount, let's not turn this into a rates battle, but seriously guys; it's called inflation. My car alone costs more than 20 to fill up its tank, and it is a small/eco car. (I reeeeally need to switch to a hybrid...)

Y'all want to bitch about service and shitty in-calls but pay pennies for good service.

In this hobby, you get what you pay for.

I don't expect a tip ever; but my advice is, if you are going to tip, tip right.