Recommendations: Truth or Warm Fuzzy

Just had a provider decline to see me. She said I had a number of "NO" recommendations and would pass. So the question is: what's the purpose of the recommendation? Is it to accurately appraise the experience and whether I would repeat, or is it to give the provider validation and possibly not bruise her psyche?

One of my "NO" recommendation providers told me to my face she was GFE before I gave her the donation. After receiving the donation, it was no kissing of any sort, no touching tits, no FOV or FIV, no DATY, and no BBBJ. She rated a NO recommendation. Should she have received a "YES" recommendation so she could feel good about herself?

Anyway, what do all y'all think about this subject?

Too many "No" reviews makes many Ladies wonder if you are just really difficult to please.

Like some people will complain no matter how hard you try to make them happy.

It is each Provider's right and prerogative to agree or decline to see anyone.

There are several guys that I would not see even if I were homeless, starving, and desperate for money. LOL

Just like there are even more guys that wouldn't see me if I were the last woman on Earth.

To each their own.

No reviews are more fun ta read most times

Definitely be honest. The problem with no reviews is we can't see the ROS so even if you are valid you may come off hard to please.

The OP merely needs to evaluate his provider search criteria.

^^^^agree!!!

Too many "NO" reviews = "What we've got here is failure to communicate."

Just had a provider decline to see me. She said I had a number of "NO" recommendations and would pass. So the question is: what's the purpose of the recommendation? Is it to accurately appraise the experience and whether I would repeat, or is it to give the provider validation and possibly not bruise her psyche?

One of my "NO" recommendation providers told me to my face she was GFE before I gave her the donation. After receiving the donation, it was no kissing of any sort, no touching tits, no FOV or FIV, no DATY, and no BBBJ. She rated a NO recommendation. Should she have received a "YES" recommendation so she could feel good about herself?

Anyway, what do all y'all think about this subject? Originally Posted by FunnTyme4Us

Not trying to jump on you, but here are a few thoughts in no particular order:

--Not all "NO"s are created equal. Some can be hostile, some are unemotional statements of fact. I looked at a few of yours and they seem calm and unemotional so if you feel they are an honest reflection of what happened, then post it and don't sweat it.

--The bigger questions should probably be: Why do such a large fraction of your encounters turn out poorly? That is what some ladies will wonder when the see a lot of "NO" recommendations. "did he not do his homework and have unrealistic expectations?", "Did he push for things not on the menu and use the NO as retaliation when he was turned down?", "Is this a guy who has trouble finishing and blames the woman?", etc. I am not saying any of these happened in your case, I am just saying some ladies will have those thoughts run through their head.

All you can control is to do your homework thoroughly to increase the odds of a good encounter, and then if it still does not work out well make sure your "NO" is written clearly and unemotionally so any other ladies don't jump to conclusions about the cause of the "NO".

I am old and difficult to please.
I have erection issues.
When I do get it up, it takes a lot to get a nut.
I rate the ladies by the effort they put out to make me happy.
Most on eccie have been excellent and put fourth a lot of effort to make me happy.

There are 100 million providers out there. Ok maybe a little less lol. If they get pissed because a guy tells the truth in a review then just go on to the millions that are left. A review is for the guys not the gals. I haven't given out that many no reviews but if they deserve it then they get it. I don't care if a hundred other providers think that I'm hard to please and don't want to see me because I told the truth. With that said the vast majority of my sessions have gone great and the ladies I have seen deserve a good review