So I sent messages to three providers that I would like to meet. I sent multiple messages in case I did not hear back from some of them. I heard back from all three and they are available. So, when I choose which one what's the accepted way to let the other two know? I don't want to come across rude. Originally Posted by ErastisBe honest, tell them you've already booked with another, but would like to see them another time. Lotsa gents just leave a lady hangin'. That's not only rude, but inconsiderate. When it happens like that, a lady usually figures out that's what ya did anyway.
Be honest, tell them you've already booked with another, but would like to see them another time. Lotsa gents just leave a lady hangin'. That's not only rude, but inconsiderate. When it happens like that, a lady usually figures out that's what ya did anyway. Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen
By telling the truth you run the risk of pissing off the losers, but then you will see their true colors. Originally Posted by awl4knotYet, if they graciously accept that you were impatient, or waited until the last minute and didn't really have a preference for her in particular, and they thank you anyway for choosing them among all the sexy ladies available and they might even tell you they hope to hear from you soon. Then you know you've at least managed to choose a lady, among many, who behaves professionally when this happens. Easy enough to weed out tempermental ladies, unless that's your thing.
Yet, if they graciously accept that you were impatient, or waited until the last minute and didn't really have a preference for her in particular, and they thank you anyway for choosing them among all the sexy ladies available and they might even tell you they hope to hear from you soon. Then you know you've at least managed to choose a lady, among many, who behaves professionally when this happens. Easy enough to weed out tempermental ladies, unless that's your thing. Originally Posted by MaxiMilyenA cordial response can lay the ground work for a future appointment.
Yet, if they graciously accept that you were impatient, or waited until the last minute and didn't really have a preference for her in particular, and they thank you anyway for choosing them among all the sexy ladies available and they might even tell you they hope to hear from you soon. Then you know you've at least managed to choose a lady, among many, who behaves professionally when this happens. Easy enough to weed out tempermental ladies, unless that's your thing. Originally Posted by MaxiMilyenExcellent! ^^^^