Well I reckon Betsy ain’t a rubbin

Cajun57's Avatar
So I’ve met many wonderful women on this board through the years. I’ve been NC/NS’f by two that were traveling through and they hurt. But today was the first local girl who went ghost and never returned communication with the appointment set. I spent as much time preparing for the visit as any woman would. I just don’t get it. I know RL gets in the way sometimes but a simple text doesn’t take that much effort. Just saying.
Sorry, that happened. On each end both parties are preparing for the fun and no one likes their time wasted. With that being said
I hope she is ok
Cajun57's Avatar
As do I.
  • A1.
  • 03-03-2018, 02:07 PM
I wished life was that simple. Cellphones run down and have to be charged & people get side tracked when they have errands to run.Once the cell goes dead and some don't realize it, the hurt feelings have already started. Dropping cellphones happen frequently and they damage very easily with every stored number no longer available.
Misplaced or stolen cells happen sometimes, my brother took my phone by mistake (identical phones).
A main concern would be that she is not hurt or was in a collision.
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Well hallelujah! She’s ok. Overslept today for 6 hrs. Must have been really, really tired. Just glad she’s ok.
Over sleeping 6 hours?! That is very unprofessional and unbelievable, who over sleeps 6 hours???? That's a lot of hours. Tells me a lot. She had something else pop up most likely and later saw your post, so she had to respond for damage control. No one over sleeps 6 hours? She had enough money and blew you off, I suspect. And I was thinking of seeing her when I come to NOLA next time, if our schedules matched. I schedule these things a few days in advance because I am from out of town and I do not want to have worry she may over sleep again.
When ever i can get a boner, I need a date fast. No telling when it will come back again.
If someone leaves me hanging 15 or 20 mins after our meeting time, without letting me know something is wrong, I will find another provider.
No excuses. I know most providers would feel the same way if we were late and didn't notify them.
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  • Lia88
  • 03-03-2018, 11:40 PM
I have slept for 6 hours before. It happens to the best of us. Once we hit the pillow we dont realize how tired we are until we actually go to sleep.

I live a active life outside of providing, errands,school,work,family. So it happens more than you think.

We all have slept hard before. Lets try to be a bit more understanding. Were all humans here.

Although sorry this happened to you at least you You seemed to be very understanding to her needing sleep. Good for you. Even if it was or wasnt true we have no way of knowing if it isn't. If it is constantly happening then I would think otherwise.
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  • Lia88
  • 03-04-2018, 02:36 AM
Has she done this more than once?

if not I wouldn't have jumped the gun and made a thread about it. I mean C'Mon now...
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I'm pretty understanding about how things can can come up. But oversleeping 6 hours is ridiculous and not believable.

Even if she was that tired, she shouldn't have booked the session. Knowing your body's limitations is part of professionalism.
It shows a lack of regard and respect for him and his time. Those things go both ways in this hobby.
Most people sleep for 6 hours, that is not issue. She claims to have OVER slept by 6 hours. Just too unbelievable. I am not going for it and I have no sympathy. She has not posted here to attempt damage control but has posted more ads. That tells a lot too. I commend you for starting thread, this info is better than any bogus review!

She screwed you over, she outright disrespected you! She made an appt. And NCNS when a man does that he is torn apart on here. It is wrong either way it happens him to her or her to him. Why you would be okay with her disrespecting you is a question. Why you would accept such a lame excuse shows lack of a spine. I would never see her and due to your post, she lost my business. When I make appts. I keep them and want the same treatment in return.
Overslept for six hours = Provider got a multiple hour offer from someone else and you got ignored. It’s happened to all of us at some point. There aren’t that many providers who actually have a business acumen so don’t be surprised if you don’t receive the best customer service ( cancelling and rescheduling clients in this case). The providers that do really stand out.
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  • Lia88
  • 03-04-2018, 10:18 AM
Most people sleep for 6 hours, that is not issue. She claims to have OVER slept by 6 hours. Just too unbelievable. Originally Posted by gentlemantoo
Very True. I've never Over Slept by 6 hours. That is a bit much.