I've noticed that alot of the ladies, when screening, will ask for a recent provider referral and how they will remember me.
1. Exactly what do you ladies consider to be recent activity? Is it within the last 30 days?
2. What do you do if one of the referrals says they don't remember the guy?
I'm asking because my hobbying comes in spurts and I'm about to have my last spurt for a while. I'm not an extremely active hobbiest anyway, but I don't want to fall out of the realm of what most ladies consider to be "recent".
I didn't try to research this subject, so if it's out there just point me there.
Thanks,
TM