Shibari, and Trust

valkyra's Avatar
Hello everyone, my name is Valkyra. This is my first time venturing outside of my local area's board so, hello hello ^_^

Was very ticked to find a kink board... I love exploring kinks and introducing people to new things they haven't been able to try before.

Most recently, in the last 6 months I've gotten into Shibari with my Dom.

(Please note my Dom is not in the Hobby)

I wasn't expecting everything that came with this act; I wasn't entirely prepared for the sudden safe feeling that I felt myself wrapped in, when he was tying me up

tight, and safe. I felt secure. I've always had an issue with trusting people, so for me this was huge.

Have you encountered a fetish that has satisfied you in ways more than simply sexual, and how so?

Was it a long-term relationship, such as D/S? Or was it a one-time happening with a provider?

Was it an experience you replicate whenever you can, or do you think it was a one-time thing?

It's so grey where I'm living, I'm in the mood to curl up in bed and read some good stories.
valkyra's Avatar
tickled** not ticked
RetiredSubmariner's Avatar
Greetings;

I own a commercial building with a couple of storefronts, in one storefront we have been using as a public Community Center. Once a month a local fetish group has been holding their 'private' dinners [or 'munches'] with an adult playtime afterwards. For the past year. Among the various fetishes demonstrated has been Shibari.

I have been pleasantly surprised by how many people appear to enjoy Shibari.

We have a St.Andrew Cross, massage tables, and hard anchor points for suspension.

It has been a joy to host these munches.
GypsyHeart's Avatar
My fiance is also a rigger. He even teaches at our local dungeon. Would be excited to exchange fets if you have one? From one rope slut to another.
valkyra's Avatar
Greetings;

I own a commercial building with a couple of storefronts, in one storefront we have been using as a public Community Center. Once a month a local fetish group has been holding their 'private' dinners [or 'munches'] with an adult playtime afterwards. For the past year. Among the various fetishes demonstrated has been Shibari.

I have been pleasantly surprised by how many people appear to enjoy Shibari.

We have a St.Andrew Cross, massage tables, and hard anchor points for suspension.

It has been a joy to host these munches. Originally Posted by RetiredSubmariner
That sounds really neat! We have a local kink/play group around here that sounds like a similar concept to what you have. I'd like to explore some of them, but my Rigger is quite shy and would prefer to work alone. I'd love to use some of the bigger equipment (like the cross!) that we can't use here, though. Sounds like you guys have fun!

My fiance is also a rigger. He even teaches at our local dungeon. Would be excited to exchange fets if you have one? From one rope slut to another. Originally Posted by GypsyHeart
Fuck yes! Find me here:
https://fetlife.com/users/13514258
Rooter's Avatar
I'm not much into rope, but I like doing mummification wrapping on others. I like the feel of the woman's body beneath the plastic, tight yet soft. I like the helplessness they have and slowly tearing into them to fuck. It's not easy to replicate. Lots of fetish play I'm into isn't. It's very hard to find people that are into kink play. Me or the wife aren't into heavy bondage, but lots of people like the idea of it. We also go to a local group.
valkyra's Avatar
Bondage of any sort from my experience becomes a sort of peaceful state, because at some point you realize there is nothing you can do about the situation and you just let the worry go. What happens next isn't up to you.
Greetings;

I own a commercial building with a couple of storefronts, in one storefront we have been using as a public Community Center. Once a month a local fetish group has been holding their 'private' dinners [or 'munches'] with an adult playtime afterwards. For the past year. Among the various fetishes demonstrated has been Shibari.

I have been pleasantly surprised by how many people appear to enjoy Shibari.

We have a St.Andrew Cross, massage tables, and hard anchor points for suspension.

It has been a joy to host these munches. Originally Posted by RetiredSubmariner
Where is this store front you speak of??? Since the sanctuary closed years ago haven't found a safe place for me to call home again. If you would be so kind as to inbox me with the information id be forever grateful to you!
playerplano's Avatar
Lucy have you been to this place ?

https://dfwdungeon.com/
birder22's Avatar
She is from New York State