Are you satisfied after an appointment?

Sure, I’m happy after I’ve had a good romp. But...

Damn, I am horny as hell afterwards. Am I the only one??

Always.
But I'm very selective about who I ask for dates.

Sex drive isn't something that tends to go away for men... unless you're having issues with depleted testosterone, etc... That's how girls keep guys coming back, time and time again

Sure, I’m happy after I’ve had a good romp. But...

Damn, I am horny as hell afterwards. Am I the only one?? Originally Posted by Goose7093

Are you ever reaching Orgasm? Or are you only Cumming?

She looked at my modest penis and said.." Who you gonna satisfy with that little thing?" I simply answered.. "ME!"

As an entrepreneur sometimes my pot of gold runs dry, other times I make a big score. Love the big score, but always looking for more money.


Sex is like that - good session, mind blown, wad blown, physically spent - satisfied, but still want more, more, more - never satisfied. Embrace the conundrum.

I satisfied after a good session, but always feel like something is missing. I think its the hunt for me. Providers fill the need for variety, but I dont get the satisfaction of talking my way into someone's panties.

I agree with Ben Dover, mines little but it only as to please is ME!!!

Sure, I’m happy after I’ve had a good romp. But...

Damn, I am horny as hell afterwards. Am I the only one?? Originally Posted by Goose7093

Buyer's remorse?

Only if the se4ssion was sub optimal for some reason.

Re--examin why you hobby and the providers you see.

I unsatisfied but usually if cum don't think even about sex for week.

Sure, I’m happy after I’ve had a good romp. But...

Damn, I am horny as hell afterwards. Am I the only one?? Originally Posted by Goose7093

Are you ever reaching Orgasm? Or are you only Cumming? Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

When I first started hobbying and for a long time afterward, I use to think that just one on one being naked in the bed, going through the motions of getting my dick sucked, having the provider spread her legs and lay motionless like a corpse with her eyes closed as I did DATY and fucked her until I got a nut was great. There are some ugly, fat old farts that think that is great.

But after paying tens of thousands of dollars for the pleasure, I soon realized that I can just get a nut from JO to porn for free on the internet and I did not have to pay girls that not only have had hundreds of dicks in them and are so numb to the experience, but also think they are doing me a favor by taking my money. The ladies in the porn videos are vocal and geuinely seemed warmer, and no drama.

Any provider that thinks just because a guy achieved a nut during his time with her is all she has to do and thinks that is an actually fully statisfied session, should quit providing. It is the experience and her making a guy feel glad he is a man. How a provider that has such disdain for a guy that choses to pay for a SERVICE (not just a nut) is still in the business of providing and her phone still rings is beyond me.

When I do not have as many as I would like in my rotation of ladies, I go to SB sites and get dancers to meet with me OTC at strip clubs I am a VIP member at.

Very good thread here.

I totally agree with Wile's above post.
It should be page 1 of the "How to be a Good Provider" book.

I used to get those feelings of anger and unhappiness as well. It happened a lot and I think a lot of guys probably feel the same way.

It is YOUR money. You are the one who got ready, used your car and gas money to go see said provider, stopped and picked up cash...you do a lot then you walk away feeling the way you do.
You are the boss. Have the courage to say "no". This problem of anger and unhappiness can be fixed, but you have to do it.
The amp girl texting you to come see her is not going to take care of this problem for you.


Seeing a reputable independent put a stop to those feelings for me.

Totally agree with Wiley. The idea of seeking out new providers is a lot of fun. The anticipation, the way her bodies move, how she gives head, her moan as you penetrate, are all fun to experience.

However, if the providers goes threw the motion lays there, doesn't seem to enjoy it. Next.

I try to keep two or three providers I have a connection with on rotation.

I don’t think it is even close to far to solely blame providers for poor chemistry, because that it where that satisfaction comes from- connecting with another person. Lots of people are very mechanical because they actually do not want that type of connection. It is dangerous and makes you spin out of control. Worst of all, it isn’t real. Provider client relationships are professional things, a sort of intimate theatre- not a place to find true love. Hobbyists want the sense of that, to feel appreciated and desired. But that simply cannot happen with everyone. When it does, it leaves you in an uncomfortable middle ground where you have become addicted to the touch of another. You want to be close but it just isn’t possible. It is beyond difficult to walk away from such profound longing, because you want so much more. In that place desire becomes insatiable. Make no mistake intimacy is a language. All of us learn to get better at it or worse with practice and it is spoken through kisses and embraces not busting a nut. Some people never learn how to speak fluently in their expression of intimacy. When people do, you suddenly discover you are more than good enough. You matter. Even providers can get played out with intimate good moments. When hobbyists learn to be a good time to a provider, they reciprocate big time. The big problem is it will create absolutely gut wrenching moments and blur the boundaries of provider/client relationships. Always remember, it isn’t real.

When there is a lot of good chemistry, it's satisfying. Brain interaction, effort, intimacy, laughter, comfort, learning each other. The rest, doesn't do anything to take the sexual edge off, even with either one busting a nut.