I posted a while back about dating civilians. Well I have done so. Trouble is, sex with the civilians has been ruined by you ladies on this board. I've had too much great sex around here. Where on earth do I find a lady who can do it as well as my Eccie ladies? Dammit. I'm gonna have to marry my hooker.
Originally Posted by ktrouble22
Not to interject so seriously here, but I personally think it is because a lot of "normal" aka "civvy" women can just be really weird and shamed over sex.
Unfortunately, bc of the society we live in. Sex is constantly in the media yet when it comes down to real life, a lot of women feel ashamed of their own bodies, sexuality and sexual desires. Like it is wrong to want to "fuck like slut" etc etc.
Like, I was reading this study the other day that said something like 15% of the women who had participated in the study still had never experienced an orgasm through sex at the age of 40. Jesus, how sad!
And I've dated a few chicas (in civvy life, not the hobby) that were perfectly happy to pleasure me until the cows came home, but would never want me to go anywhere near their coochies.
Women who are providers obviously do not have these hang ups about sex; we are more liberated in that way and can therefore enjoy and give sexual pleasure more freely. Not saying that there are NO civvy women who aren't like this; but it does seem to be a conundrum. Do all provider ladies inevitably end up becoming providers
because of our non-issues over sex? Maybe.