My Personal Hot Button

Don't know about all y'all, but I'm really getting tired of showing up only to find the lady used pictures that were 10 years old and 50 pounds light. Sometimes you can figure it out, but often I'll read the reviews and none of them give up the information that the OP had to see … the lady is old and just fat. Some guys like that and more kudos to them. Not me. I'm getting to the point that I just turn around and walk out. The lady usually gets really mad, but the false advertising is just ridiculous.
Maybe one more hot button. Advertising GFE, than everything is covered and she doesn't kiss. So what is the definition of GFE?
Rant over … for now.

I understand completely that's why I update my pictures ever chance I get.

Don't know about all y'all, but I'm really getting tired of showing up only to find the lady used pictures that were 10 years old and 50 pounds light. Sometimes you can figure it out, but often I'll read the reviews and none of them give up the information that the OP had to see … the lady is old and just fat. Some guys like that and more kudos to them. Not me. I'm getting to the point that I just turn around and walk out. The lady usually gets really mad, but the false advertising is just ridiculous.
Maybe one more hot button. Advertising GFE, than everything is covered and she doesn't kiss. So what is the definition of GFE?
Rant over … for now. Originally Posted by luv2luv

Yes I don't like it when that happens too. The last time that happened to me was when I went to meet Violet aka Bi Bi Butterfly. She was clearly much older & heavier than her ECCIE showcase pics (back when she was on ECCIE). I wish I had done what you suggested and just left but I stayed and had an unpleasant experience.

Your idea of dealing with the situation sounds good to me, luv2luv. If the lady who opens the door doesn't look like her pics, just say "You don't look like your pics at all. You're using deceptive & false advertising so I'm going to leave now. Goodbye and don't contact me again."

If she doesn't offer BBBJ and especially if she doesn't kiss, she's not a GFE lady. I love to kiss which is why I always choose GFE ladies and I would be very disappointed if she said no to kissing.

like who?

like who? Originally Posted by cage196

Hi sexy lol
Aww hell I couldn't stalk if I tried.

I would like to suck your cock again soon though! Lol

The lady is only hurting herself and her business with a move like that

Sorry that seems to be a trend you’re having to deal with

I don't think anyone would blame you for bailing on an encounter where someone misrepresents herself.

Just a thought, shouldn't y'all find a tactful way to call out the ladies that are using outdated pics, but then turn out to be "old and fat" in person? Maybe at least in the men's locker room, if not in coed? Otherwise, it seems to me that you're not really helping out your fellow hobbyist.

Ladies aren't really allowed to list activities they enjoy in private in our updates. And since it's not wise to discuss certain things, I'm not sure how you can confirm if she likes kissing, etc.

I think providers do themselves a great disservice by using outdated old photos. Everyone has a type. When you think you are getting one "type" but another "type" shows up, the only thing its going to do is make you not want to see her again because shes not what you like.

SEXYKIM for example has pretty accurate photos, and tells you upfront she has "mom Body" . Shes a beautiful lady, gorgeous face, and makes it very clear in her photos who is going to be behind the door you show up. Plus she knows how to seriously suck every drop of life out of your cock.

there is a provider placing ads now that she currently is about 60 pounds heavier than her photos portray. Thats annoying.

Actually I've been losing weight and working out. Pin up photo shoot is in the works! But thx for the kind words Mr cage196 ��

I understand completely that's why I update my pictures ever chance I get. Originally Posted by jamieDallas

What pictures?

I don't think anyone would blame you for bailing on an encounter where someone misrepresents herself.

Just a thought, shouldn't y'all find a tactful way to call out the ladies that are using outdated pics, but then turn out to be "old and fat" in person? Maybe at least in the men's locker room, if not in coed? Otherwise, it seems to me that you're not really helping out your fellow hobbyist.

Ladies aren't really allowed to list activities they enjoy in private in our updates. And since it's not wise to discuss certain things, I'm not sure how you can confirm if she likes kissing, etc. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

The proper place to do it is in a review. If a guy doesn’t want to put it in public comments, he can use the ROS section to be more explicit.

The proper place to do it is in a review. If a guy doesn’t want to put it in public comments, he can use the ROS section to be more explicit. Originally Posted by TinMan

Yes, that would be the proper place; however, it's clearly not done as the OP said "I'll read the reviews and none of them give up the information that the OP had to see … the lady is old and just fat."

Just seems that y'all would have a list in the men's room on this specific topic. Seems like it's pretty important information and then y'all would know which guys habitually exaggerate in their tales.

In addition to old or B&S pics, my hot button that irks me is when I inform a provider of what I like in a session then she agrees that she is at least comfortable with the kind of service I am requesting. I set the appointment, get ready, drive an hour in traffic to the other side of town, get there on time, meet her and the session begins. After the session time is over, she was not only far from what I like, but many times, the complete opposite.

Usually, much less than halfway in to a session, I can determine when a provider was just agreeing to see me to get the money. Many providers are under the impression that if a guy gets his nut, then they did their job, which is far from the truth, I can get a nut by JO to internet porn for free.

Yes, that would be the proper place; however, it's clearly not done as the OP said "I'll read the reviews and none of them give up the information that the OP had to see … the lady is old and just fat."

Just seems that y'all would have a list in the men's room on this specific topic. Seems like it's pretty important information and then y'all would know which guys habitually exaggerate in their tales. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

In my experience, if they won’t give it up in a review, they won’t do it in the ML, either.

One exception to that statement: there are guys who on occasion will do “mini-reviews” in the ML. One reason for that is there are too many bozos on this board who don’t know to keep their review comments in private tags. A guy may put some negative information in ROS, but he may as well have put it out in public since his “buddies” basically do it for him.

There is no honor among thieves, it seems.

I like to keep my photos updated about every two months
I don't change much at all , my body stays the same as in my photos
my hair color never changes im blonde for life ..
I take very good care of my skin as not to look old at 51yr ..

But I understand when you show up and she like outdated in looks - wight in her pics and you just have to walk out.

And if you want something I don't do , I'll tell you im not into that ,

Not worth my Reputation ..