Sexting

Does anyone enjoy sexting with a provider or client leading up to a session? I think the build up and anticipation is part of the fun. Snapchat is fun way to entice as well Katherynlust has a Snapchat everyone should follow, trust me. Any other providers enjoy the build up as well?

Looking forward to all the providers that say yes then get inundated with sexts.

Looking forward to all the providers that say yes then get inundated with sexts. Originally Posted by FunInDFW

Ha! Good point! Didn't think about that!

Thats one of those things, unless the provider advertises she wants it, you keep to yourself

Thats one of those things, unless the provider advertises she wants it, you keep to yourself Originally Posted by oldbutstillgoing

Yes, you nvr know if her phone, or yours, might fall into the wrong hands.

Nope! Not a good idea

I have one provider who lights me up with pics, and it is not really appreciated. She does it to stimulate new business, but...would be hard to explain to my wife why I have text messages with nudity on my "work phone".

I would love this - that's what I am getting from the SB's I've been finding. But having some follow up from providers would be welcome. I use a web-based SMS program that allows me to not receive notifications on my actual phones - wives don't need to be concerned!

I think it's dumb, personally, but that's me.. for one thing, it's like seeing 3 opening acts at a Concert, by the time the band you came to see gets onstage, you're worn out, and the anticipation was killed.

and what about sexters who sext for several days, and end up canceling? it's hotter to me to hit up a Provider with little notice, and be fucking in short order.

I think it's dumb, personally, but that's me.. for one thing, it's like seeing 3 opening acts at a Concert, by the time the band you came to see gets onstage, you're worn out, and the anticipation was killed.

and what about sexters who sext for several days, and end up canceling? it's hotter to me to hit up a Provider with little notice, and be fucking in short order. Originally Posted by Chung Tran

Omce again Chung nails it.

+1 Chung

Who Sends pics ? I do not have a wife to worry about.

I think it's dumb, personally, but that's me.. for one thing, it's like seeing 3 opening acts at a Concert, by the time the band you came to see gets onstage, you're worn out, and the anticipation was killed.

and what about sexters who sext for several days, and end up canceling? it's hotter to me to hit up a Provider with little notice, and be fucking in short order. Originally Posted by Chung Tran

I don't think it's dumb, but it certainly a waste of time.

I used to really enjoy, and get turned on, by a bunch of sexting before an appointment. I'd truly get enthused about meeting a new client. Until after a few weeks of anticipation only to have the vast majority of these guys cancel at the last minute or put off actually scheduling an appointment.

Same thing with IM'ing.

So I have firm boundaries now. Well, most of the time,

There is some light flirting before an appointment and then, there is sexting. Not the same thing for me,

I offer sexting for a price. And while sexting, I'm much more lascivious than I write on ECCIE or in general correspondence, possible to the point of surprising a few of you.

Other times, I'm more demure, depending on who I'm chatting/texting with.

Point being, I agree with the above.

And I'll add this, most escorts sell time. Not an activity, At least that's the company line.

So while it can be fun, expecting it as a precuser to an appointment withOUT compensation isn't going to win you any brownie points.

And scoring a few kudos with the lady of your choosing before an appointment (doesn't have to cost anything. Being authentic and charming goes very far. Being slightly awkward and sweet? You'll have me at a smile!) can pay great dividends during, if you know what I mean.

Got off on a bit of a tangent but it's past my bedtime. Thanks for reading this!

Sweet dreams,
Elisabeth

Ok, personally, I feel like this... I am an entertainer and I would have to charge. Why should I entertain anyone on my time for free?

Generally speaking, in my experience, the guys who waste the most time texting me wanting to discuss session details, needs, desires or fantasies prior to scheduling or actually arriving at an appointment are the ones who rarely show up.

Why?

They got their jollies off for free.

#charitywork

Ditto... What Elisabeth Whispers said is right on the target and worded so much more graciously... I wrote this before reading her post and I could've saved my breath.

I don't think it's dumb, but it certainly a waste of time.

I used to really enjoy, and get turned on, by a bunch of sexting before an appointment. I'd truly get enthused about meeting a new client. Until after a few weeks of anticipation only to have the vast majority of these guys cancel at the last minute or put off actually scheduling an appointment.

Same thing with IM'ing.

So I have firm boundaries now. Well, most of the time,

There is some light flirting before an appointment and then, there is sexting. Not the same thing for me,

I offer sexting for a price. And while sexting, I'm much more lascivious than I write on ECCIE or in general correspondence, possible to the point of surprising a few of you.

Other times, I'm more demure, depending on who I'm chatting/texting with.

Point being, I agree with the above.

And I'll add this, most escorts sell time. Not an activity, At least that's the company line.

So while it can be fun, expecting it as a precuser to an appointment withOUT compensation isn't going to win you any brownie points.

And scoring a few kudos with the lady of your choosing before an appointment (doesn't have to cost anything. Being authentic and charming goes very far. Being slightly awkward and sweet? You'll have me at a smile!) can pay great dividends during, if you know what I mean. Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers