If providers put the same level of importance on the looks of their clients as clients put on providers a lot of us would never get laid again. Originally Posted by livn2doI don't know about that. If a guy is good looking with a douchey and dry personality i'm not gonna want to fuck him if even he offered double my rate.
Our money, ugly as it may be, must look beautiful to them. Originally Posted by lycurgusis spot on. Real life takes a toll on both men and women. Women are just much more forgiving in that area then most men are.
The false/deceptive pics that are used in this hobby, especially on BP does bother me. If I am expecting a 1990 Corvette and 88 Mustang shows up, I can live with it. However if a 74 LTD is at my door, I am not going to be a happy camper. I think most gals that do use recent pics still try to show there best angles. Not you Jocelyn, you look great from every angle that I have seen.
When I have to resort to BP due to very poor selection of verified gals where I travel, I ask if their pics are of them and recent? They always say "of course they are". My next question is "Are you going to be pissed if I leave or send you away if they are not close?" 9 times out of 10 that is the end of the conversation and I move on to the next one. I have had several say that if they are not what I am expecting that is fine. I found a couple gems that way.
I have no problem with 10-15 extra pounds or a 5 years of age from the pics. However there is a big difference between a 120/25 advertised and 170/35 reality. I do not have a problem with the gal that is 170/35, and if I am in the mood for a little more cushion, I will seek them out. But if I am looking for 120/25, that is what I want to spend my hard earned money on.
I am thankful that these courageous gals are willing to put up with us balding overweight older men. I like to be with a women more than once or twice a year so this hobby works out great for me. Not everyone likes the same type of women, I think we can agree on that. I for one like average to thin gals. Blondes are my absolute favorite, but hair color makes very little difference as long as they at at least decent looking and have representative pics.
As far as experience, I want a great experience, but I am not looking for a new wife. A new friend is fine. I really enjoy spending time with nice ladies that look good. Originally Posted by hermanhaspender
The false/deceptive pics that are used in this hobby, especially on BP does bother me. If I am expecting a 1990 Corvette and 88 Mustang shows up, I can live with it. However if a 74 LTD is at my door, I am not going to be a happy camper. I think most gals that do use recent pics still try to show there best angles. Not you Jocelyn, you look great from every angle that I have seen.I've tried to tell girls in a nice way that I don't want to waste their time or mine if their pics aren't legit, but I think you're line of leaving is a better and more direct way of setting expectations.
When I have to resort to BP due to very poor selection of verified gals where I travel, I ask if their pics are of them and recent? They always say "of course they are". My next question is "Are you going to be pissed if I leave or send you away if they are not close?" 9 times out of 10 that is the end of the conversation and I move on to the next one. I have had several say that if they are not what I am expecting that is fine. I found a couple gems that way.
I have no problem with 10-15 extra pounds or a 5 years of age from the pics. However there is a big difference between a 120/25 advertised and 170/35 reality. I do not have a problem with the gal that is 170/35, and if I am in the mood for a little more cushion, I will seek them out. But if I am looking for 120/25, that is what I want to spend my hard earned money on.
I am thankful that these courageous gals are willing to put up with us balding overweight older men. I like to be with a women more than once or twice a year so this hobby works out great for me. Not everyone likes the same type of women, I think we can agree on that. I for one like average to thin gals. Blondes are my absolute favorite, but hair color makes very little difference as long as they at at least decent looking and have representative pics.
As far as experience, I want a great experience, but I am not looking for a new wife. A new friend is fine. I really enjoy spending time with nice ladies that look good. Originally Posted by hermanhaspender
I saw LTD and OMG did it have a 400 mod in it ? A craig 8 track and a midland cb? criagers and mickeys and painted like starskys gran torino ?It did have a 400 but factory AM radio and the CB had been stolen. Steel with only 1 dog dish and very bald and cracked F78's. Painted red with a rattle bomb and a very weathered white vinyl roof. Still interested?
I have to have it !!!!
Just driving your point home so to say ... Originally Posted by slickahhughs
Herman: How do you leave without coming across as a complete asshole? Sadly I've had problems leaving on several occasions.So far I have not had to leave or send one away since I started asking the question. I am as nice a guy as you will ever meet, but if you flat out lie to me on this subject, I can become an asshole. I would forgive 20% or so on weight or age, but more than that and I have no problem standing up to it. Hopefully this does not put me in a bad place with a pimp someday, but I am willing to take my chances.