Hey Guys! How long do you last?

Psychology Today states in a survey that "the average sex session lasts from three to ten minutes."

Quite frankly getting it on longer than 30minutes just rubs me raw, lol. And Im like "CUM ALREADY!" with my current hunny. I love sex with him, but he can make it last a very long time, and he is well endowed. It becomes a pleasure pain.

So guys, how long do you last?

And ladies, how long do you like a guy to last?
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I think I would like to hear what 2ligit2quit has to say? Check this out!

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=280716&page=4

ME.... 1st pop 5 minutes 23 seconds. I had three condoms on! LOL This would be a record for me!
Haha when you said 2ligit, I was thinking mchammer and that being a link to his video, BLONDE MOMENT!

this is a knock off of that thread, to just see who goes the longest, self proclaimed of course. Unless theres a lady or 2 out there willing to prove some of your claims haha
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Haha when you said 2ligit, I was thinking mchammer and that being a link to his video, BLONDE MOMENT!

this is a knock off of that thread, to just see who goes the longest, self proclaimed of course. Unless theres a lady or 2 out there willing to prove some of your claims haha Originally Posted by CiaoBitchezz!
The truth is, when I'm with a HOT lady, I lose all self control. On a good day I can go 20-30 minutes. BJ 5-15 depending on the skills be administered. Not the best in the world I admit! But I can give oral till the gal can't walk. That’s the name of that tune! Can I get an Amen!

shorty's Avatar
Lasted 2 hrs twice but it wasn't all just sex. I'm actually ashamed of it though because the lady worked her buns off but it just wasn't happened those two evenings. However, I did tip her well because I felt like I let her down.
Is 2 hours normal for you? I should have added either personal sex or hobby sex too. I wonder if there is a difference in how long you last between the 2. There are many factors Im sure that would effect your performance. Condom on or off? (hopefully ON if your with a provider)
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In the hobby with a condom, I usually know within 15-20 minutes of the date, if its going to happen early or its going to take awhile. Of course, personal sex is quicker. It feels natural and both of us can really get into it more.
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It really all depends on the provider in a lot of cases. If she is unresponsive, and not that vocal I can find myself internally coaching myself to just get it over with. If she is vocal (nothing like a little dirty talk and moans), 5-7 minutes in any position except doggie. Don't know what it is but even the thought of doggie gives me a tingly feeling in me naughty parts. With doggie, I'm like a 13 year old boy...the slightest movement will set me off. It's my curse.
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It really all depends on the provider in a lot of cases. If she is unresponsive, and not that vocal I can find myself internally coaching myself to just get it over with. If she is vocal (nothing like a little dirty talk and moans), 5-7 minutes in any position except doggie. Don't know what it is but even the thought of doggie gives me a tingly feeling in me naughty parts. With doggie, I'm like a 13 year old boy...the slightest movement will set me off. It's my curse. Originally Posted by livn2do
Unresponsive... like she is not into what your doing or unresponsive like you need to hold mirror in front of her face to see if she is dead? LOL
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I have never popped in a rubber, and 1/2 hr is minimum without it.
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Personal sex I like a lot of foreplay. I can explore a womans body for a long time keeping fully erect.

Pay per view I get in there and out in a half hour.
I pay to cum and I do.
So guys, how long do you last? Originally Posted by CiaoBitchezz!
It used to vary a lot when I was younger, but several years back I briefly dated a woman who was into Tantric sex and she taught me a lot about control and as a result I can now usually last as long as I want.

True, she was a bit of a flake, with her constant talk of chakras, auras, floating spirits and various other things, my more scientific mind, don't actually believe are real, but OMG did she ever have mad skills!

She once just asked me to lay on my back and do nothing and say nothing, and then she proceeded to give me a hand job that lasted about 2 hours. She must have brought me to the edge of orgasm about a dozen times, but somehow knew how to bring me back down each time, without cumming and yet without losing my erection.

When she finally did let me cum, the orgasm was unbelievably intense and, not to get too graphic, but the volume was probably 5x more than normal.

After that experience, I've had a lot more control over my orgasm, and as I said, I can now usually last as long as I want. I say "usually", because I do occasionally encounter a woman whose skills make holding off a real challenge, but these women are kind of rare. With most women I have almost total control.
A few years ago I had a 5 day sex-vacation with a lady. It was definitely MSOG (40 times for me, lost count for her). It was morning to night non-stop excepting only for potty and food breaks. She was one horny little lady, and it was non-stop drilling for hours at a time because I was so fascinated by a woman who could cum 25 times to my 1.

Then there was also a toy I had bought for her...

I slept for a week after that.
wouldnt know how to answer that a sore pussy to me equals a good time
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To me it's about "the Journey, not just the destination"
There is so much more to sex than intercourse and how many times you can cum.
I know if i was a man I would not shell out good money just to cum a couple of times. I would want to be sexually entertained. I would also want the person I am paying to entertain me to have a lot more knowledge about how to sexually pleased someone than the average person. In other words they better be able to make me shake and shimmer, and leave me speechless or it wouldn't be worth the effort.