I have been in the hobby since 2002, and have only had a brief membership on date-check. It was based on referrals, so I did not have to give any personal info. It seems to me that P411 would greatly simplify screening, because I do not have to wait on a provider that I have seen before give me the o.k. And BP is not an option.
I attempted to join before. They called me at work to confirm my identity and I backed out, because I am concerned about discretion. So, what I am wondering it what convinced the hobbyiest that use the service that their info would be safe?