Brother, after speaking with you via pm and clearing some things up I can say that you have just as much of a right to be here as anyone. It's not the board's fault for your troubles and I think we both know who I am referring to. If you don't write reviews then paying to see the bcd is about the best bet for you, unless of course you find better info elsewhere. Take it from someone who knows...paid for a many sponsorships many places and never got a refund for one day, so I doubt that will happen.
I see mostly lurkers in fla and never posted an ad as of yet, so there is plenty of oppurunity to meet reputable people without being a day to day poster. In fact, it is more attractive to have some mystery. I do hope you reconsider