Compliment?

Ha! I just had a "sweet young lady" just tell me, "wow, you must have been really hot in your day". Lol. I'm sure she meant it as a compliment, but, it didn't have that effect on me. Guess I'm "over the hill". Ha!
Out of the mouth of babes has a new meaning. (Men's egos are fragile after all.) Oh well, next... Anybody else have an intended compliment backfire? Have fun everyone!

I would have taken that as a compliment. While I still feel like a young stud in my head, all the evidence says otherwise. Take them where you can get them.

Yeah she meant well, but just didnt think before she spoke.

I have no doubt it was meant as a compliment. But I know how you feel, along with many other guys on here, I'm sure. What's the quote from the Toby Kieth song? Something like....

"I'm not as good as I once was, but I'm as good once as I ever was."

To young girls in their twenties anybody over thirty is an old guy. Is that right? No, but it is what it is.

She meant well. Plus she probably got a better performance from you than she would have in your "hot days". I remember those days. I would see a beautiful woman and cum in my shorts, get a touch on the arm by a girl and cum in my shorts, awaken in the morning and find cum in my shorts..I had more cum outside me than inside me.

Awwhh I think she meant well.

@christos not true! haha, or at least not in my case. i'm 24, and to me, in the hobby, and the RL, 35-45ish is my seeexxxyyy!

I'm on the wrong side of 50 and I definitely would have taken that as a compliment. I would love to be "in my day" again!

Definitely meant as a compliment, although I can see how it could sting a bit... especially if you really were a hot young guy.

On the other hand, if you were a bit of an ugly duckling when younger I'd say it's a huge compliment! There is after all such a thing as "aging gracefully".

Anyway, I think for the most part men aren't as concerned about their age, and women know it. Therefore they are not as careful about commenting on it as gentlemen are when speaking to women.

LOL compliment for sure

Wow, I feel better! Especially being under Pepper! lol

Pampered secret- Great escort but horrible expereince with her as a person. Warning never borrow money to an escort that you decide to see out of biz because you will never get it back. Nor will you ever recieve any responses. I hate to post this here but had such a horrible expereince with this girl that I do think others should know. Hands down of all the women I have known in my lifetime she is the most unappreciative person on the planet. Again, great escort but as a friend of mine once told me be careful trying to date any. I fucked up and it cost me. I tried to treat her like gold and she shit all over me time and again. Probably because she still saw me as a client. No wonder I no longer visit escorts all because of Pampered Secret. I know she has a great reputation on here but if I had to do it all over again I would of never ever seen her in the first place. She has no heart or it is made of ice. I will probably be burned on, and get plenty of heat for this but need to get it off my chest especially since she never responds back to my inquiries. What I learned from this is to never date an escort.

Pampered secret- Great escort but horrible expereince with her as a person. Warning never borrow money to an escort that you decide to see out of biz because you will never get it back. Nor will you ever recieve any responses. I hate to post this here but had such a horrible expereince with this girl that I do think others should know. Hands down of all the women I have known in my lifetime she is the most unappreciative person on the planet. Again, great escort but as a friend of mine once told me be careful trying to date any. I fucked up and it cost me. I tried to treat her like gold and she shit all over me time and again. Probably because she still saw me as a client. No wonder I no longer visit escorts all because of Pampered Secret. I know she has a great reputation on here but if I had to do it all over again I would of never ever seen her in the first place. She has no heart or it is made of ice. I will probably be burned on, and get plenty of heat for this but need to get it off my chest especially since she never responds back to my inquiries. What I learned from this is to never date an escort. Originally Posted by bigjohnny8

This isn't really the right place to unload your story. The thread was about a compliment. If you have an alert post it there, but this sounds like a personal issue to me.

Smitty is right. This is not the proper forum to have used to have aired out your concerns. Your post is way off topic of this post. Do not respond or comment about bigjohnny8's post here.

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