last month in business does not end kindly

For future reference if anything is written negatively about me from now through a month from now please don't believe everything u read!

I have a client I've know for 3years threatening me...
He might right a bad review, notify my family that I'm an escort via facebook, I'm not sure exactly I'm just covering all bases!

Random notes: I now have a full blown N.B.A policy the last month of me providing.
Yes I'm leaving the business and yes I won't see anymore blk clients (sorry guys)

To the providers: Trust no one, most of the time these men are twice our age, 3times smarter, and been in the business 4times longer!

Be safe everyone, and remember nothing is as serious as it seems!
#think.before.u.act

Most importantly, stay safe, pretty girl!

Sorry to hear about this Melody.
I consider you one of the best I know.
Good luck in the future, and Merry Christmas.
I hope I can see you again before you are gone.
I will text you babe.

Well, it sucks to know guyz would do that. But hey, in the long run, NBA policies don't help, its screening that does, and that also jus reduces the chances of that happening. If you let someone get close to you enough to know you both as a provider and a sister(black term), make sure he is a good guy and yes, you knew him for three years so i guess you did that too. Just cross that scum off your list and cut him out. +1 to what Selena said.

Screening will only get you so far.....

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Screening only verifies that they are not the police and handle other providers well...


Every woman had different reasons why they don't see blacks and this why.
I still love my brotha's (blowing a kiss) Originally Posted by MELODY MUSIQUE

I guess its the same old argument for and against NBA policies. I feel your drift though. And i truly hope it works out for you. you do what makes you most comfortable.

I simply have a rule not to see NBA providers and who am i to argue with my own rules, i mean, we all have them for a reason or two. By the way, in the spirit of Christmas, have a Merry one.

Screening only verifies that they are not the police and handle other providers well...
Screening will not show me his character 3 years after trust is established.
This person is on eccie with reviews, I will not state the handle because he's not a threat to other providers. He's the perfect hobbiest... I Just messed up and invited him in my life as a close friend not a bf (for the record) Originally Posted by MELODY MUSIQUE

You should AT LEAST contact a Moderator, he may not only be a threat to you

As far as the NBA policy goes... Every bad experience I had in this business a blk guy was involved...
It has to be in the DNA make up lol. Blk ppl show ass better than any other race. (My opinion)
Limiting myself to black environments and not dealing with blk clients keeps me safe. I know this from experience its not all mental
It sucks to say that because I am partially blk.
Not seeing blk clients puts me at ease... Having just a little less to worry about is priceless

Every woman had different reasons why they don't see blacks and this why.
I still love my brotha's (blowing a kiss) Originally Posted by MELODY MUSIQUE

Trying REALLY hard to bite my tongue on this WHOLE paragraph...just saying

This was not to start a argument. Delete

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Trying REALLY hard to bite my tongue on this WHOLE paragraph...just saying Originally Posted by DickEmDown

That makes two of us.

Sorry if my opinions upset you. Originally Posted by MELODY MUSIQUE

They don't upset me Melody, they confuse me...also, I don't think ANYONE likes to be Stereotyped



Moving on, whether he writes a review or not, how could he be the "perfect hobbyist" if he is threat to you, a provider. His alarming behavior might not only be towards you, that's all I'm saying...

You are a grown woman so handle it as you see fit, if you need any help from the Houston Mods feel free to let us know!

Be Blessed sweetie and Happy Holidays!

As far as the NBA policy goes... Every bad experience I had in this business a blk guy was involved...
It has to be in the DNA make up lol. Blk ppl show ass better than any other race. (My opinion)
Limiting myself to black environments and not dealing with blk clients keeps me safe. I know this from experience its not all mental
It sucks to say that because I am partially blk.
Not seeing blk clients puts me at ease... Having just a little less to worry about is priceles
Every woman has different reasons why they don't see blacks.
I still love my brotha's (blowing a kiss) Originally Posted by MELODY MUSIQUE

Wow.... Now I'm not black so this statement doesn't really affect me one way or the other and I respect your right to keep yourself safe in whatever way you see best. There's nothing wrong with that but "in their DNA"..... Really?

I understand being upset and such. I realize people say all kinds of things when they are but if you really feel this way (usually when someone says something regardless of the reason their is a hint to how they really feel) then that's pretty sad.

I wish you the best when you move on and hope nothing happens within your stay here....

I have a question..... Since you are moving on in a month which is pretty soon and since he is not a danger to others then what would a negative review from him even matter. Trust me when I tell ya one bad review won't hurt cha, you have a well established reputation here so I don't think you have much to worry about regarding that issue. If anything your above statements will hurt ya more than a negative review ever would

It's not in the DNA.

Dna was a bad joke! Hint the LOL
Mind u I have the same DNA. So scratch that statement as serious

I am not angry by far. More fearful than anything

Jus want to end on a positive note and keep my name clear
I guess it won't matter a month from now...

White dudes are just as crazy......ijs.