For all the newbies out there Check this out

http://thechive.com/2015/07/23/13-co.../#.b2efsu:xBQA

Sometimes it is better to have a longer session so that you can employ some of these recommendations especially the first one. When you become more experienced you allow for this time so you can learn to develop a little chemistry with the provider. This is how you measure a provider and write reviews and sometimes you have a bad experience but it is partly your issue.

#6 is the one that will totally fuck up a session if not done VERY gently if the lady will let you.

#10 is something I was not aware of until recently so I guess I gotta carry some lube with me. ladies?

#11 If you kiss and suck your way down to DATY and hit the more responsive areas on the way, then she will usually respond like you desire especially if you took care of #1. YMMV is different on the first visit but if you make an impression, second visit could be off the charts, cause lets face it they are professionals.

A woman is like nothing you have ever experienced, and the better you turn her on, the better your money is well spent.

#10 Forgetting to put lube inside the condom

This is especially true for those with lots of stamina. Always use water or silicon-based lube inside the condom, as it prevents breakage and feels much better for the condom wearer.

This is pretty smart and definitely reduces the chance for abrasion to the "member". I've only had one provider ever lube me up before putting on the raincoat and it definitely made things much more enjoyable.

Basic things to bring in your "party bag":

Always have a water-based lube (Astroglide natural is awesome!). Flavored lubes are fun but increase chances of vaginosis. (http://www.health.com/health/article...411455,00.html)

Latex and latex-free condoms in large and smaller sizes. The fit is very important to increase efficacy.

His and her vibrators. Most of us like a little vibration for a change.

Of course, there are many other fun things to keep in the tool box, these are just the essentials. Massage oil (coconut oil) is always there too. Oils do not degrade latex-free condoms like latex condoms but I still prefer water based lubricants (http://www.stapinc.org/Prevention-Services/Condom-FAQs).

#14: If you penetrate the vagina and it smells like you opened up the raw sewer line gtfo.