No answer after initial call: is it me or?

moniflyer's Avatar
Need some advice- i'm relatively new to the hobby and am having difficulty setting up appointments. I attempted several times over the weekend to set appointments with 3 different providers. I had spoken with all 3 initially told them when I could meet and each said they would either return my call or call when I arrived in the area. I either didn't receive the return call or when I called back no answer or a full mailbox. Is it something I said, didn't say, needed to ask or what. Any advice would be very welcome.
medicalman25444's Avatar
I have to say the climate is a little cool out there the last couple days. I had one lady schedules for tonight last week and she canceled yesterday saying she had to go out of town last minute when I call to confirm. I then made a date with another and when I call this afternoon to comfirm she was also out of town and said she would see me tomorrow instead. I get out of work late and none of the ladies from the coast had a car or gas money to come to H'burg area. What does a guy need to do to get some.
JustaGuyinMS's Avatar
I'm afraid you guys are a little out of the main stream when it comes to providers. But as newbies, I'd recommend joining P411 - it's free for the first some number of months, and it's a way to get verified. But the bottom line is that there just aren't a lot of ladies in Hattiesburg and Laurel - you may have to travel to meet someone, or watch the ads to see when someone is going to be in your area.

Good luck.
medicalman25444's Avatar
I am not a newbie to this I was pretty active on aspd when it was up for a good three years or better. I have just been under the radar due the home front. I am trying to get out more lately, but it is hard when you can not break away when you would like.
DallasRain's Avatar
ya shoulda drove to see ME in nola babe!!{lol}

seriousl though....,sorry that happened...keep your chin up and you will find some fun!!!
kisses,dallas
bluffcityguy's Avatar
ya shoulda drove to see ME in nola babe!!{lol} Originally Posted by DallasRain
From all I've read, that's not at all a bad option.

Just make sure you have a cardiac stress test first, then pay up your life insurance, and draw up (or at least review and update) your will.

Then either you'll have the experience of your life which you'll remember for years, or your surviving family and friends will be wondering why in hell your corpse has that incredible grin on its face.



Cheers,

bcg
JustaGuyinMS's Avatar
Oops, Medicalman, my mistake - I do seem to remember you from ASPD. Guess the best bet is to encourage ladies from north and south of you to come visit Hattiesburg. Good luck.
Medicalman, welcome back to the life, HBurg is a waste land for good providers. If your willing to travel an hour or so you could get a few from Slidell or they can travel this way for you. Then there is always the problem with some of the ladies just being bad at keeping dates. Dallas and April are always reliable and alot of fun.
DallasRain's Avatar
thanks RPM & BCG!

I will be in Hattiesburg early June

Maybe April & I will do a road trip....hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm mm
amymayhem123 on escorts.com travels through Ms. & La. For me I found it VERY easy to set up an appt.
I have a car and it (usually) even has gas in it! I can't imagine being a provider without transportation. Maybe if in NYC or other huge city, but not little ole MS!

I'm always happy to travel to Hattiesburg or meet halfway in Magee as long as I have a little notice. My only request if it is Hburg (or similar distance) is that it be a 2 hour appointment or I receive a bit towards travel expenses, given the 3 hour round trip travel time.

I hope your (both moniflyer and medman) next provider turns out better than those did!
clarkkentglasses's Avatar
hey flyer,

Welcome to the hobby life. There's no better way to put it. If the girls are must haves for you keep on trying otherwise move on to the next golden goose. Try seeing one or two of the well established girls and once you get their refs things will be easy as pie.
will_61's Avatar
I guess the best thing is to set an time and date and keep the comittment, that is for both parties. If I run into a problem I call as fast as possible to allow for another to enjoy the fun and not hurt the provider.

That being said, I often (used to) run into a provider just trying to squezzeeee somebody in and mess my time schedule up bad. This presses the use of another provider and most all can be avoided. Its a comdey of sorts, as seeing the need to travel an hour to a high provider area benifits the customer as to availability.
moniflyer's Avatar
thanks every one for the responses some very good points were made and i will learn from them hopefully next time i go a huntin ill get me one!
well, if you had a head gasket or a head go out in your vehicle, wouldnt that mean that you didnt have a car (it being in the shop and all). rent a cars are hard to come by down here, trust me on that, with all the people coming in for this oil spill crap.
also with the way that the economy is down here, trust me also that gas money sometimes is not so good. so versus us having to drive around all the time for incall or outcall in another area, why not come down to us ?