Sugar babies!!!!

Ok I think I understand what the term means, but you guys tell me. What is the general idea behind what a sugar baby really is.

and where to find one and not have to deal with the scams lol

$eekingA would be your best bet on the sugar babe

thanks!

I was told that it was strange that I was willing to compensate a lady for her time for a few hours netflix'n chill'n like I love just laying on the couch watching tv, but that it was totally fine to spend 200 on dinner and another 100 at the movies. My thought is, I'm sooooo much more comfy on my couch. I mean if the money and the time envolved is about the same, and everyone is happier I think. I'm not so much a sugar daddy as I am, a molasses daddy. I might be slower, but I'm so good on biscuits with a touch of butter

Ok I think I understand what the term means, but you guys tell me. What is the general idea behind what a sugar baby really is.

and where to find one and not have to deal with the scams lol Originally Posted by bear612

The general idea is that you have a provider on retainer. Some arrangements are exclusive (meaning she sees other men and pretends you're the only one) and some are not exclusive (meaning she sees other men and doesn't bother to pretend you're the only one).

Most men who have participated in such an arrangement found they don't last too terribly long for a variety of reasons. And these men don't tend to be serial participants. I think as a whole, most men in the hobby prefer variety and spontaneity. I may or may not be speaking from experience.

This having been said, there are success stories out there, where a lady and gentleman are committed to the arrangement over a protracted period of time. These, of course, are infrequent and without question expensive.

To each his own.

And to all of you, Happy Thanksgiving!

this does make a ton of sense. It's the trust building thing that is annoying. I was so happy years ago finding a few of these sites, but there have been way more disappointments than fruitful correspondences. I'm sure the same can be said from the other side of the coin.

Happy Thanksgiving to you as well FLwriter

The problem with Seeking is you have to have both the lady and man be paid members ($100/month) to read messages.

So if you have a membership and the lady does not, there won't be any communication at all going on. It's a complete waste of time.

There's no difference between an escort and a sugarbaby. Even the media has started calling sugarbabies escorts. That's something that has changed over time, peoples' perception and whether to consider the two the same.

That has been my assessment of SA also. Overpriced verging on a WTF scam.
Much more flexibility with the many alternatives to SBs.

<snip>This having been said, there are success stories out there, where a lady and gentleman are committed to the arrangement over a protracted period of time. These, of course, are infrequent and without question expensive. <snip> Originally Posted by FLWriter

not as expensive as marriage, and nowhere near as expensive as divorce!

It’s hit or miss. Rather deal with the awesome ladies here.