Shreveport ... Cassandra needs a little of your help.

Hi Cassandra I’ll give you my 2-cents for what it’s worth

1. I agree with you on screening. A woman decides to screen potential clients however she chooses and she should never compromise what she feels is her level of safety.

2. Prebookings, well simply put they are difficult to get her in Shreveport/Bossier. I think the main reason stems from guys being stood up; example: Provider posts that she will be coming to town hobbyist makes an appointment then provider decides not to come and there could be many legitimate reasons why and sometimes she doesn’t even notify anyone she not coming. I’m sure you can see how that would upset the hobbyist.

Now let’s say that scenario plays out several times to the local hobbyist, he then stops making prebooks with anyone because he feels it’s not worth the time and effort. If he does start the prebook process he may not want to commit to a specific time and day because he doesn’t want to make a plan and block time out of his schedule because he’s still not sure the provider will actually show up.
He then waits till the day the provider is supposed to arrive and calls to find out if she has actually made it to town.

The results are bad for both hobbyist and providers. Providers think no one is town wants to see them and hobbyists get upset because providers won’t tour here.

The previous example is from both my own experience and from speaking to other hobbyist’s in the area. Now I haven’t given up completely on prebooking but mostly now I only do it with providers I have contacted first to try and get them to come to town.

How do we change this situation? I don’t know but I think that’s the discussion we should be having…

Does anybody believe in PREBOOK SPECIALS??

Answer: Some may but with the holidays. Some may be reluctant to not let a provider down if they have to cancel due to unforeseen events

I mean cmon now, scheduling appts. Is what gets us, providers, going, gets us there even faster !!

Answer: I am sure it gets you ramped to visit, but again the holidays. I am sure you may have received PMS inquiring about dates.

Makes me look dumb just posting an ad and not showing up ... I feel like a loser. Lol

Answer: You are not dumb. I would say maybe post dates you are looking at coming and see if the PMs roll in

is there something I am doing wrong ?

Answer: My above suggestions

I always try to book with providers in advance but as of late when I do a lot of them do not show up when they say and when I contact back, they say sorry not enough interest.
Tired of that shit. If you want to come here, say you are coming and then come.
It goes both ways but I have never booked in advance and then cancelled.
It is simple common courtesy.

We had a 3 page essay on this topic in the mens lounge and 90% of the men here have given up on prebooking, for different issues as stated above, personally I will not prebook due to #1 over half the providers that post are not coming and I live an hour from town, I have wasted alot of time and money on no shows? #2 my job, I never know for sure when Overtime is gonna is not gonna be my friend?? and I have canceled because of this situation and had providers rant and cuss and Drama from hell, it's just not worth it to me!!!

A large quantity of men in this area have industrial based jobs with unpredictable work schedules. I have tried to prebook several times to no avail.

My 2 pennies ! I have prebooked with many different providers over the yrs and most of them couldn't make it , got more feedback from another located , and some didn't say nothing bout it at all. I try to be a man of my word, so if I prebook and u accept don't that mean that's a date ? I know things do come up ! But for a provider to tell me that we have an appointment on a date , that they will be there ! Then pm me back and say that I have had more pm's somewhere else ! ( don't get me wrong I know it's all bout the money ) ! Why should I waste my time setting up an appointment and its a 85/15 chance that she want make it ! IF U PUT YOUR HAND ON A HOT STOVE ! HOW MANY TIMES WILL U DO IT BEFORE U STOP ?? My 2 pennies

I have noticed that most cities are willing to prebook, but the week before Christmas is NOT the week to travel... Just in my experience. I just went to Houston last week and had a lot of cancels/NCNS. Come back out here after Christmas. Give the boys a chance to recover from spending so much on kiddos and tuition

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Give the boys a chance to recover from spending so much on kiddos and tuition