A question of condoms and cock rings

The situation: The feeling of condoms going on, turns me off, and I end up deflating. Also, thanks to my foreskin, the condom gets stuck between it and the head while attempting to save it, which also makes me go soft. This cost me my first attempt at losing my virginity (Though I must say, it was an enjoyable failure).

The questions: Would a cock ring save the day?
Does a cock ring have to go over the condom or can it be used to prevent my going soft in the first place?
What is a good non-solid (e.g. Velcro) cock ring? (frankly, the solid ones scare me)
Any other related advice?

The situation: The feeling of condoms going on, turns me off, and I end up deflating. Also, thanks to my foreskin, the condom gets stuck between it and the head while attempting to save it, which also makes me go soft. This cost me my first attempt at losing my virginity (Though I must say, it was an enjoyable failure).

The questions: Would a cock ring save the day?
Does a cock ring have to go over the condom or can it be used to prevent my going soft in the first place?
What is a good non-solid (e.g. Velcro) cock ring? (frankly, the solid ones scare me)
Any other related advice? Originally Posted by diwafiven

I'm sure u can find providers to go and take care of you w out condom
Shhhh don't yell though

I'm sure u can find providers to go and take care of you w out condom
Shhhh don't yell though Originally Posted by Missburger

I am sure I could too. But I am not willing to do that, I am not crazy.

Have you tried a FC2 (female condom)? http://www.fc2femalecondom.com/

I first tried it because I was trying to find a solution for those men who comment on discomfort or desensitization with male condoms. Well, it turns out that all most all of the partners I have tried it with love them. I use them about 95% of the time and a great bonus is that I prefer them as well.

Also, once the FC2 are in for a short bit, they warm up to the same temperature so they are the closest you can get without having to endanger your life or anyone else that they are with.

They are a bit expensive, but I feel it is totally worth it.

With cock rings, I use these http://www.amazon.com/Vibrating-Sili...one+cock+rings

They are stretchy and have a vibe thing on top for me I use new ones for each person. They might have a bit too much stretch to them for you????

You'd possibly would want to look into one that can be sanitized. A friend of mine uses a fake leather one with Velcro and uses sexual toy sanitizer to clean it.

^^^^^ 2 thumbs up . I was just going to comment/reply darn near the same thing.

Great minds....

BTW - your new avatar is hot!!!

Gracias...yours too .

As I have gotten older I have gotten less sensitive in my crouch area. I hate it when a provider wants to get right to it without any foreplay. I especially hate it when they place a condom on me when I am in a flaccid state. That's so annoying. Cock Rings, and some male toy have helped me.

Now, if you can get pass looking at male models demonstrating these cockrings and male toys then check out:
http://www.forttroff.com/category/cockring.html

My own personal experience while seeing Ladies that use the FC2 has great. They do have a more natural feel for me and it's almost is like going bareback. Gigi is the Lady that introduced me to them. I look to see or ask the Ladies if they are FC2 friendly up front. They do add to the pleasure of the experience for me. Thank you again Gigi.