What to expect...

I met with my first provider a couple of months ago. I thought everything went fine. We played around with each other for a little bit. Then she put a condom on me. I really had only come for oral sex since I don't get that at home and I hate wearing a condom. She rode me for a little, but it didn't do it for me since I didn't have much feeling, so we went back to oral sex and fooling around. We finished our session and talked for a few. We then said our goodbyes and parted ways. I was out of town last week and saw a provider that looked attractive to me. I tried setting up an appointment. She asked for references and I gave her the only one I had. She checked up on me and told me that my reference told her that I was "very hard to please" and took a long time. I admitted I wasn't a 3 min quickie, and she said that an hour is too long and no one should have to do that. My question is this. If a provider is charging $300-$400 an hour what should you expect for that hour. And especially what to expect if you want 2 hours? I even had a girl at an AMP complain that I took 15 minutes. In the dating world, women complain that men finish too quick. I would think in the professional world with those rates, time is time... Am I wrong?

I think you're seeing the wrong providers. I am new to the hobby and I've visited a few girls and while I've had a couple girls seem to not be into it and just wanted a quick pop I've now visited with a few other providers in the same price point and not a single complaint from them. My last encounter included a 20-30 minute BBBJ where she complimented me for being "very good at receiving" and we shared a laugh. She was all about my experience and that's what sets apart the greats from the rest.

Granted, I'm new. So, maybe I've been lucky but the reputations of the past couple I've seen say they are all about you and your experience with them.

if you try for BP girls of course they just want the guy to pop in 5 minutes, less work for them the better

try and look for low volume providers who see 1 or 2 people a day at most. you may have to pay a bit more for those and they are hard to book without references. so you probably have to build up some references first.

a good provider will not mind if you go past the hour if that is what it takes to please you, because she doesn't have another guy parked outside

also in the end it sounds like hobbying might not be for you. remember these chicks are looking for $$$$ first. you might have better experiences dating drunk chicks from bars

Some just need to pick other hobbies.

I avoided the back page girls because I was afraid of what I would end up with. I started out with the higher prices girls who needed references. My first provider was a $400/hr escort with her own site and listings across the major pages. I did go over on time, but apparently she wasn't exactly happy that I took up most of the hour with actual "work. My next attempt after checking her for references told me that no one should have to spend an hour actually doing things. She was a $350/hr "pro" with multi hour rates. I was just wondering what thwy want to do with moat of the time, play cards? How long is the average session as far as actual "activities"? Or did I just get a bad luck of the draw with my first provider and my attempt at the second?

The older you get the longer it takes.. there are a few that are just use to young guys that finish in a flash.
Luckily the ladies I have met have been wonderful and patient.

Put her name on here. For $400 she better do whatever I want for an hour. Fucking cunt gave you a bad reference? Fuck her.

Yes i agree, call her out. That's why is called "work"! I can go for a long time too but have seen plenty of girls that i don't need to pay the reference game anymore. Get on p411 asap. I expect the ladies to put in the work to get me there. I've been lucky that 95% of my sessions turn out god like that.

Call her out!

I'd like to know who both providers are ...

Provider one because she sounds like a bitch.
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Provider two because no way in hell should she have ever went back and disclosed to you what provider one said in her reference.

Both of these ladies sound like poor choices.

Sounds like you need to get new and better references. Too many providers out there that will take of your needs.

You should have listened to what you said to yourself, " I just came for a BJ that don't get those at home" and stood your ground. The moment you felt that condom go on, you were getting what you didn't want. Plus if you're a BJ connoisseur, do some research and find out which girls give the best head before you go out next. Hope it's comes out better for you - literally!

Regarding the provider, she should have asked you what you wanted and provided exactly that. You need to be clear on that with them, you can take the entire hour to get your nut, cuz it's your money. The fact that she complained means that she is just used to using her body as a simple tool and not satisfying your needs by tapping into what you really want mentally. What do you expect they're ho's?!

I admit a lot may have been my fault since it was my first time and I didn't know what to expect. As requested, the provider I saw was Anna Arnault in Atlanta. She is listed on this and other sights. The provider I tried to see was from Birmingham (Samantha 205-207-7972). She is on other sites but not this one. I read Anna's reviews and saw what people said they paid for an hour. They varied from $250-$300, so I put $300 in the envelope from her. While saying goodbye, I made sure this was ok, and she said her rates were actually $400, but that what I had was ok. I offered to pay the difference, but she declined... That is why I put $300-$400 in my original post...

If "that's very hard to please" then I'm a fucking super diva. And maybe I am. Butt I do expect to get the time I pay for, and I expect that to be mostly activity. Research better is all I can offer.

The older you get the longer it takes.. there are a few that are just use to young guys that finish in a flash.
Luckily the ladies I have met have been wonderful and patient. Originally Posted by wendlo

I lost my virginity in my late teens and I didn't even finish the first time. So i don't agree it gets harder to finish as you get older. some guys take long period, doesn't matter the age.

i have found if the pussy feels great i finish faster.

i have found if the pussy feels great i finish faster. Originally Posted by joesmo888

That's strange. I think this must be unique to just you, Joe.