too sensitive after cumming

Question for both guys and gals. When the lady keep sucking after the guy cums, in porn, it is so sexy. The thought of it is very arousing. Would love to try but I get way too sensitive, almost hurts.

Any tips from the guys?
Any ladies that have insight or experience and want to try and fulfill this fantasy? Idea would be for a 2nd pop. With 3-4min rest I can do a 2nd pop, but for the fantasy, to have her keep sucking would be the idea.
Invisible1's Avatar
After you cum in or outside of the lady's mouth, have her keep sucking and licking your head till you cannot handle the pleasure any longer. Then between your gasps and moans, ask her nicely to move down and focus her mouth and tongue on your entire shaft below the head and to also gently massage your balls. When you are ready....or after about 30 seconds but before your cock gets soft....ask her to move back up, take the head of your cock in her mouth and give it to you again until you need to ask her to move back to your shaft again. Repeat as needed. This is post cumming pleasure at its finest. It also helps to move to 69 with her on top after you cum to help put your mind and focus on something else that needs your kind attention. Keep this up as a team to extend your pleasure and a second pop could be yours.

Damn, I just made myself really horny.
beachcomber789's Avatar
If it is a BBBJ then when I cum it is super sensitive....if I am covered and inside it is fine..not sure why but that is how it happens for me.
Jules Jaguar's Avatar
After you cum in or outside of the lady's mouth, have her keep sucking and licking your head till you cannot handle the pleasure any longer. Then between your gasps and moans, ask her nicely to move down and focus her mouth and tongue on your entire shaft below the head and to also gently massage your balls. When you are ready....or after about 30 seconds but before your cock gets soft....ask her to move back up, take the head of your cock in her mouth and give it to you again until you need to ask her to move back to your shaft again. Repeat as needed. This is post cumming pleasure at its finest. It also helps to move to 69 with her on top after you cum to help put your mind and focus on something else that needs your kind attention. Keep this up as a team to extend your pleasure and a second pop could be yours.

Damn, I just made myself really horny. Originally Posted by Invisible1
That sounds hot Im going to have to try that
beachcomber789's Avatar
That sounds hot Im going to have to try that Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar
Do you need someone to practice on?
KaitlynDior's Avatar
Question for both guys and gals. When the lady keep sucking after the guy cums, in porn, it is so sexy. The thought of it is very arousing. Would love to try but I get way too sensitive, almost hurts.

Any tips from the guys?
Any ladies that have insight or experience and want to try and fulfill this fantasy? Idea would be for a 2nd pop. With 3-4min rest I can do a 2nd pop, but for the fantasy, to have her keep sucking would be the idea. Originally Posted by wrongnumber
Your completly normal, I think you should give it a try and if sensitivity becomes a issue then you should probably take it just a tad bit slower
ElisabethWhispers's Avatar
Porn is porn. Most of it is staged and even stressful to those performing it.

Some men LIKE cock and balls torture before, and after, orgasm.

Experimenting is great, certainly go for it, but if you're too sensitive to be touched much (on your penis) after sex, well that applies to 98% (or close) of my client base.
ElisabethWhispers's Avatar
I should have answered your question.

If you want to desensitize your cock, you need to keep playing with it while it hurts. Then the more you do so, the less and less it'll bother you. Well, probably.
  • !VI!
  • 07-08-2015, 07:52 AM
well i don't have a penis so.... yea no clue buddy, i'd say invest in some CDR it'll help with round 2 and 3
Invisible1's Avatar
VI, Just curious. What is CDR?
I'm not sure it's a fetish.....but I LOVE. when a lover allows me to continue to softly lick, suck and adore his cock as it softens after orgasm. It's a bonus if it hardens again right away but not necessary for my fantasy.
I've always enjoyed it because for me it extends the pleasure and high of my orgasm. If done right I'll start squirming, giggling and will be super sensitive. Eventually though I have to get away though lol . I've always enjoyed continuing to DATY after orgasm and if she is super sensitive afterwards, even better. :-)
Also, I second the comment above about continuation and working into 69. Makes for fun stuff :-)
<<<<< taking notes
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<<<<< taking notes Originally Posted by thathottnurse
Take really good notes....
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  • Tetas
  • 07-08-2015, 01:35 PM
Masturbate with an orbital sander. 220 grit at first, work up to 80 grit...
You should be able to handle your fantasy in 3 months or less.