Question about BnG etiquette

blk07lac's Avatar
I'm wondering would it be considered impolite to ask a lady upon arrival to use some type of mouthwash before receiving my services? Any thoughts on this subject are welcome..
Obviously, some ladies will take your request differently than others. But, to me, it's no different than some ladies who ask the guys to wash their face and hands before a session. Some even go so far as to have a special antiseptic soap they want you to use, if they are susceptible to allergies, etc.

The issue you may run into though, especially with the quick BnG sessions, is whether any mouthwash is even available if it's an incall. That's a situation where you may want to have one of those travel-size bottles of Scope in your pocket to offer to the lady.

And, maybe if you take a serving of mouthwash first, and then offer to the lady, she'll be more receptive, rather than a "my breath is fine but yours isn't" attitude.

And, by the way, I think it's interesting how you worded it "receiving my services". Isn't she the one providing the service? Well, unless you've named your dick Services.
Grace Preston's Avatar
I frankly can't imagine NOT having mouthwash at an incall--- I personally don't see it as insulting at all. No different than the 10,000 "Wash Your Ass" threads, IMO.
You shouldn't have to ask, but I think we have all encountered a bad breath provider at one time or another. You could offer her some sort of flavored gum or mint as a polite gesture Put one in your mouth first, so it does not come across in a a bad way. You could also show up with coffee , mocha, or similar and that will help and will probably make her happy. Personally, I like the feeling of some mint and gum flavors during the bj. I like early appointments and morning breath can be pretty bad.
JRLawrence's Avatar
You shouldn't have to ask, ………….... Originally Posted by vitokc
If she is that unprepared for the visit, you could just evaluate the situation and think with your big head instead of your little head.

Evaluate the situation, be polite, but if it is bad enough you can count your blessings and leave. You have not purchased anything yet, but you have seen the goods and they are not what you expected.

JR
Be prepared to have a travel sized SEALED mouth wash and you should be fine. If the lady becomes upset or irritated at the request she likely would be a disappointing rendezvous anyway.

If you offer unsealed mouthwash she might decline because of the risks involved. Such as being drugged.

Most ladies carry mini travel tooth brushes, mouth wash, underarm deodorant and body spray, as well as mints, gum and other such necessities.

I personally have been known to carry travel sized toilettes for both myself and my date. Things such as... disposable razors, hair spray, non scented or masculine scented body wash, shampoo, conditioner, mouth wash, disposable tooth brushes, body spray (axe for men) perfume, and on occasion even a spare set of mens socks in white and black. (those darn things can just disappear sometimes!)
If she is that unprepared for the visit, you could just evaluate the situation and think with your big head instead of your little head.

Evaluate the situation, be polite, but if it is bad enough you can count your blessings and leave. You have not purchased anything yet, but you have seen the goods and they are not what you expected.

JR Originally Posted by JRLawrence
Unfortunately, you can be half or completely naked when you
discover the breath issue. If the place is a mess and smells, that should be a tipoff.
Walk out now!
If you have to walk out and have started the appointment, it is probably good to give her a tip for her time and leave. It may just temper the situation and you can walk out cleanly with less hard feelings. I have done that before. Fortunately, I am more selective and do more research these days to avoid this if possible.
blk07lac's Avatar
Thanks for all the good answers.. I will start keeping a few small bottles in my vehicle.
algrace's Avatar
Agree with Jaycee: SEALED!
JRLawrence's Avatar
Unfortunately, you can be half or completely naked when you
discover the breath issue. If the place is a mess and smells, that should be a tipoff.
Walk out now!
If you have to walk out and have started the appointment, it is probably good to give her a tip for her time and leave. It may just temper the situation and you can walk out cleanly with less hard feelings. I have done that before. Fortunately, I am more selective and do more research these days to avoid this if possible. Originally Posted by vitokc

I always leave a tip if I have to walk out an apologize for taking her time.

JR
bbwlover's Avatar
I think Jaycee has the right idea with her "kit"

That definitely makes me feel more comfortable when these items are available. I prefer showers to be a part of the encounter, so it's always good to have masculine scents.